I mean of course she’ll do it because she’s his slave. He thinks of her as property

He thinks of her as property and nothing more. I feel bad for her actually

Where’s the plagiarism? I was so excited when I read the headline. But you are grasping at straws. Expressing a similar idea to what Bane said is not plagiarism. This is embarrassing

They’re all fucking stupid. You’re still white. Sorry but you are and I’m tired of some white Jewish people (assuming you’re not a POC Jewish person) trying to act like they’re not white. You’re still white. White Jewish people is a thing. Acknowledging that you’re white doesn’t make anti-semitism any less insidious…

But what about the mayor??

FFS people aren’t perfect. We all were ignorant and problematic at one point, and you’re being a self-righteous asshole and condemning someone who sincerely wants to not be problematic anymore

Sorry I meant she didn’t mean it as a way to excuse what she did. She didn’t explain to excuse and seek validation and be told that it was fine for her to be complicit in whitewashing

I guess, but I don’t like false hope. It depends on who are

There are things that you’re not considering like timing, whether or not the other person is attracted to you the same way you are to them, etc. I’m just really put off by you blaming people for unfortunate situations

She was just explaining her rationale, not trying to justify it and be like “Hey it’s cool if I did it”

That’s heartbreaking. I’m sorry that your friends are like this :(

Exactly. What am I supposed to do? I’m so conflicted which is why I just want my brain and heart to not care anymore

Why do you assume it’s her fault or the fault of many on here who have been single for a long long time?

Obviously it’s not going to be the same for you since I assume you would never be with someone who’s a deadbeat like that

She’s not expressing disdain for them. Just that she wishes they could understand

Wow you’re such a bitter asshole. Speak for yourself

1) I relate to this so much except I still want one and have never experienced a relationship. I desperately wish I didn’t care anymore. I want to go into a dissociative state about my personal life especially after a year and half of meeting guys who were fuckboys and assholes, some of whom just used me for sex. And…

Or or they genuinely want to learn because they don’t want to be problematic? FFS how do you expect people to unlearn their problematic views?

Oh shut up. Swinton did everything right (after taking the role which, yes, she shouldn’t have done; but at least she was willing to learn). We’re constantly telling white people to listen and educate themselves, and Swinton did just that. Who better to ask than someone who’s lived it? And now you’re fucking…

It’s the latter. She felt coerced into doing it especially since it was sprung on her and the whole butter thing wasn’t in the original script or something