It sounds like this guy doesn't really understand polyamory. He just wanted women "hotter" than his partner but liked having her around, either because he actually liked her in some way or because he wanted a safety net. (I'm kind of surprised he didn't just try to cheat on her. I suppose he thought he was being a big…

It could be fake, but I know of several instances where this exact thing has happened, so it could also very well be true.

I was JUST talking to a friend who recently opened up her marriage. It was a mutual decision in their case because he said he wasn't attracted to her anymore. She's fucked a new guy every week.…

True story...
I had a boss who walked out on his wife when she was eight months' pregnant to move in with a stripper. They'd married young. She was a teacher. He made partner with a big firm and made tons of money so they agreed that she'd stay home and raise the kids. He decided at some point that she was fat (ie…

Yup. This is pretty much how it always goes, in my experience.

I've dated several guys in open marriages/relationships. They tell me all about their relationships. Usually it's he who wanted the open marriage in the first place but then before long the wife is having a blast fucking one guy after another (which is…

NOT ALL NON-FAT WOMEN!!!

I think it depends on the definition of "fat". While there are some men who prefer women who are actually FAT, like medically obese, need to lose a significant amount of weight, have trouble getting around and doing things due to their weight, I think it'd be fair to say that most are not.
But what about the woman who…

I'm sorry.
All I can say is that I'm older than you are and have been doing the online dating thing for as long as it's existed. And it's been a miserable experience for this conventionally "hot chick" too, the whole time, but progressive worse as I've gotten older. Dating is just so, so hard. I can't really imagine…

Oh shut up.

I saw something in a public bathroom today and waited all day to report back!

So I'm in an office building. I go to use the bathroom located in the hall. Totally typical bathroom, pretty clean too. So I go into the stall and see that there's a thingie on the wall with toilet covers and I go to take one...I usually just…

Might I suggest moving to North Korea? I hear it's awesome.

They should also be publicly executed immediately upon arrest. Trials and lawyers are for pussies.

You're seriously accusing us of not wanting to help these women? Go check ANYONE's comment history and I'm sure you'll find tons of comments decrying rape culture. I'll wait.

Actually, no. I guarantee you that I'm as horrified by rape and want it dealt with as much as you do. But there are things called the rule of law, due process, and so on. Trust me, you wouldn't want to live in a society that doesn't respect those principles.

I haven't seen that many photos of Kylie Jenner, but that one...doesn't look like any other photos I've ever seen of her.

We're never going to hear the end of this, are we?

Oh really? I'm the prejudiced one?
Go on telling yourself that you allow women to hit men because you're super duper liberal. That's very noble. Will totally fix everything. Awesome. Take those light punches in order to bring down the Patriarchy. You're a hero, bro.

I'm not sure what's more fucked up: his idea that it's cool for women to assault men, so long as it's light kicking and punching and slapping, of course, or his very specific example of it being in retaliation for insulting and demeaning her.
But of course if you think that's effed up, you're just not passionate and…

It is categorically wrong. I'm sorry you feel differently.
My ex boyfriends, who come from the most misogynistic, backward societies in the world agree with me. People do not hit other people.
But thanks so much for clarifying exactly which kind of assault is acceptable by the weaker sex.
I have a pair, thanks. I am…

I'm not American. And I'm all about passionate relationships.
Violence is not okay unless it is in self-defense and to suggest that it's okay when women hit men is nothing but sexist. I have no problem saying that sexists have something wrong with them.
Moreover, certain laws, like laws against murder and theft and…

Well then. I'm grateful I have a brother with whom I have a polite but cool relationship.
This sounds ridiculous.