I still very much like Nicki Minaj. This mistake doesn’t mean I’m not a fan anymore but she definitely fucked up.

Fancy chocolate is overrated anyway. Give me Toblerone or Milka and I am good.

Tom Brady is the Tom Cruise of the NFL.

Ha! I was teaching a play written in the 1920s to first-year college students, and the central character in the play wants desperately to have sex with her boyfriend, but doesn’t want to be a “bad” girl. One of my students said, “I don’t get it. Why doesn’t she just go on birth control?”

That’s not a “disturbingly real” version of the song, it’s a rather outlandish satire based on how 40s language sounds to modern ears. It’s funny because it’s over-the-top. Frank Loesser wasn’t writing about duct-taping and raping his wife, of course, but the idiom is a little archaic, and lends itself to exaggeration…

Ha, ugh. I actually was firmly on the date rape side of this song until I read those tweets a few days ago and had a new take on it. Google failed me in finding them.

Duck! Incoming! :)

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The slippery-slope argument you’re trying to use is nothing more than a straw man.

Yeah, any interview I’ve read with models who seem to be at all honest and realistic about the industry essentially say that everyone is naturally very thin, but still dieting like crazy. No one is as thin as the modeling industry currently wants “naturally” without restricting their diet. Just no one. The only…

They’re excluding sick people from a job that will make them sicker.

I don’t think this is a “rights” issue. We’re talking about qualifications for a job, not whether or not the very thin can vote.

So what are they saying... that a bear can’t rape a man because it’s female?

However long it takes for a case to get public attention.

By “Holiday” do you mean the Good Friday when I hooked up with super hot Alex? Or the Easter Sunday when I met him at the family brunch and learned he was my dad’s half-sister’s son?

On the one hand, I’m super sympathetic because it’s obvious she’s in tremendous pain and needs help. But on the other hand, I have a super toxic mom and for my own sanity have to keep her away from me and this is precisely the shit she’s pull to try and get attention from me. (She let my abusive ex husband move in…

Because consensual BDSM play has nothing to do with actual rape. Many sex-positive feminists engage in BDSM without it conflicting or cancelling out their feminist politics.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.

What do you have questions about?! I can try to help! This is v v important stuff.