Jane Marie, I honestly love you (please read in ONJ whispery aching, singing voice). I second an open thread because I’m just starting to learn how to use MORE PRODUCTS because I am getting very old and could use a place to hash it out. You’re the best.

at 21, that’s just genes, honey

pictures or it didn’t happen

so the server was being openly sexually, physically, verbally harassed but everything was cool with his buddies until he shot a wall. got it.

Is anyone watching I am Cait? It’s a really great show especially because the ppl Jenner is seeking out in friendship are really awesome and they balance out Jenner’s more problematic views as a “new” woman. I’m curious how it will play out for her because she IS super conservative. I mean, as a woman who like women,…

Ok, well, everyone has a lot to learn. I was vague about my issues at work so you were projecting based on your own experience...you can’t know my “precise situation.” But chances are you have probably experienced office/relationship politics so next time, try some empathy before you start in on the advice. Also, my…

How about this: we met just now through the internet and, hi, you seem like a jerk. Maybe you’re not but you comment like one. We’ve had a short disagreement in which you tried to school an anonymous loser on the internet whining about her job. You are not important to me. Am I important to you? I’m not “hijacking…

I’m reading some condescension in your response.

Then you should def not hedge if you’re going to agonize over a non-answer.

On the other hand, if I don’t get a response, I absolutely know for sure what’s going on in the relationship: nothing. I feel like no response is just another type of rejection.

This isn’t just about dating, this is about relationships in general, especially brand-new ones.

I wonder if he got harassed at all? If a woman did this...

“You couldn’t shade anyone if all the cocaine in the world depended on it.”

I like Weiner because she gives very practical advice about how to be a writer (TLDR: “Write.”). She’s given aspiring writers a glimpse of the publishing world (TLDR: “It’s hard.”) She’s also frank about rampant sexism in the industry. She’s not a great writer but you don’t have to be if you’re an beachy-fun read.…

thank you! i’ll check it out

I have very dry, sensitive skin...I use Cetaphil, a very gentle cleanser, and Jojaba oil for moisturizer at night and Oil of Olay anti-aging with SPF 15. I wish I could find SPF30 moisturizer that doesn’t have a sheen...

LOL I just went with the first period that popped into my head.

Whitney means SVU, right?

So I used to plan (? not the right word...maybe organize?) and it’s a generally accepted factoid that 1/3 of your guest list will not attend.

These straps are not wide enough to cover nipples so...aliens.