Anytime an adult uses the word “haters” to defend themselves, I automatically assume they are in the wrong. It’s a bullshit word used by bullshitters.

From baby buttholes to tofurkey sausages, this whole article made me vaguely nauseated.

Because the porn business was built by and on assholes like this.

He was heralded as a “good feminist” for years; if you spoke ill of him for any reason even prior to the allegations being more publicized, you’d be run out of town for alienating an ally or whatever. It was completely fucked up.

The end of slavery was followed by Jim Crow, lynching and mass terror against black Americans.

When the past stops living and thriving in the present...that’s when you let the past go...or IT will go on as you currently see...

Similarly, I remember listening to a bunch of libertarian women publicly wish that they could go back to 1776 because it was a “freer” time. For who? Ironically, if these women got their wish, they’d go back to being property with no rights, no right to vote, no right to own a gun, no access to education, no financial…

There are no winners here. Sure we all know Igloo was problematic and untalented but didn’t she quit like 2 years ago? So a nobody trashing another nobody to stay relevant, yay.

Much like negging and any standard advice from Carolyn Hax, “I don’t know her” is so overused now that most people know its real meaning, which is, “Fuck that bitch, I hate her, but I can’t say it because I’ll look mean and petty.” Knowing the real meaning and intent undermines the subtlety of the line.

I’m glad more information about this is coming out after the sensational first reporting, and I am withholding judgement as to what I think happened and who - if anyone - is responsible.

I too am a sucker for promotional emails, to the point that I don’t even look at them anymore if I don’t want to spend money or suffer about not having money to spend. And I also fool myself with the “more money to spend, wheee!” mind trick after returning something. Good to know I’m not alone!

I saw a preview of DeMario’s interview. I think it was over the top and cheesy, from what I saw, but I mean of course it will be for TV and that demo. But I think I am on his side here. I think that its really unfortunate that it is automatically assumed that he is a perpetrator of sexual assault and I think that…

I do wedding photography and event photography as my side-hustle. If the photographer had literally said anything other than “I’m afraid I’m not available that weekend”, they’d have been in the clear. The moment they explicitly stated that they refused to help at the wedding because of their religious beliefs, it…

Stupid people will stupid.

What terrifies me is that I’m starting to see it in friends who are not under educated. I have a “friend” - I knew her in high school and still see her around - who spouts off a lot of this shit and she’s a freaking LPN. She should know better. I see people on her page who are also LPNs or RNs who “like” these posts…

I would love to believe this but the NOI is part of what I call the “hotep” movement and that shit is spreading fast. A few of my peers are really into this crap and they believe insane things. Things like black women were not meant to have menstrual cycles (only white women, who are inferior to them, are supposed to…

God damn it! Why the fuck won’t these religious hucksters go away and stop targeting people’s fears and ignorance? It’s so unfair to spread this shit in Black neighborhoods, using the abuses the government and medical community have actually perpetrated against us. Fucking vaccines aren’t that. I hope fewer people…

wait...”and how suddenly there was nothing either of them could have said to stop what happened next.”

Man, I love his response. Bless him. I largely stopped wearing Lane Bryant because there are now better, cooler options (stop selling bedazzled sharkbite hem shirts, goddammit!), but the collaborations they’ve been doing are worth a look.