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I've felt a lot better when they told me "hey I don't like your shirt"

Yeah, but they're at the club to either dance or try and fuck a hot dude, not give you constructive criticism on your shitty game.

Haha, what? Are you serious? It's a gentle let down. You think the reaction would have been better if she said, "Yeah, I'm not attracted to you; you have too much cologne; you seem like an asshole, and I don't want to date anyone trying that hard to cover up their bald spot..."?

You are correct: "those" men who do not take rejection well and act out on it ARE a very small percentage of the population.

Pay someone to do this, or ask a friend, instead of wasting a stranger's time.

Get a life coach, dude. Random women don't give a shit about your personal improvement.

Because it's not our job to hold a seminar for some rando who can't take no for an answer on how to improve their game.

Real question: what makes you think that the rejected guy is owed any feedback? Seriously.

Because then there is a possibility that they will freak out on you and call you a bitch or throw a personal insult at you followed by "you're not so fucking great yourself."

Because that's not her job or obligation.

Are you the real Taylor Swift? I doubt it and I feel like that lie reflects on you poorly as a person.

If someone offers me a bowl of M&Ms and tells me 10% are poisoned, am I going to take any? Women lie about having boyfriends because we don't know which clueless asshole is going to try and physically hurt us to try force his way past a polite rejection. Yep, it's small subset but some of them are fucking dangerous

It's not her job to make him act like a person. If she's off the table, she's off the table, and there's no reason she needs to prove herself in the middle of a club.

Oh man, I can't wait until the misogynist trolls currently infesting Gawker notice this and run in here to start flopping around and sobbing about their precious feelings.

Trying to hit on girls is dumb. You want to hit on girls at the club? Go to Jersey Shore. A girl worth a damn isn't going to be found at the clubs.

Friend: "Come on, buddy, let's go back."
Swaying dude: "[Angry look]"
Friend: "You can stay at my place tonight"
Swaying dude:"QUIT COCKBLOCKIN' ME MAN"

All the time. "Could you send that blonde girl over there a shot?" Bartenders hate it. It kills the vibe of the bar. Back when I bartended, I'd always say no and tell them why. "Dude, no way is that gonna work, go talk to her first." Either they'd understand and appreciate it, or they'd take their creepy shit

I have a buddy who does something similar. It takes him entirely too much dutch courage before he can talk to a girl, but by that time, he's so hammered, he can barely form sentences and he sounds (and his facial expressions resemble) Sloth from the Goonies.

My favorite is the guy who's too drunk to get his shit together so he says hi and just stands there leering from 2 feet away, gently swaying in the non-existent breeze.

Don't buy a girl a drink if you haven't talked to her yet. You see this shit in movies and it works, so maybe if you're George Clooney you can ignore this. But in real life it never works, it comes off as creepy and makes the girl feel uncomfortable. Talk to her first.