Oh god you have to stop. I have 4 cats, 2 of which have been with me for 6 years now (the other two came with my husband). We’ve been through so much together...

Rich - I laughed at your title and I teared up reading the article.

What does it mean if my parents and husband are my best friends no joke??

It’s all a no-true-Scotsman fallacy. I can claim to be a feminist, but I don’t get to tell other people whether their brand of feminism is somehow less-than mine. We can dig in and debate our differences of opinion, but at the end of the day if we both claim feminism then we both want equality.

Insufferable.

I’ve never cheated in any relationship and I’ve actually never even been cheated on (that I’m aware of). I didn’t have a ton of committed relationships before I met/married my husband - maybe 3 or 4 that I would consider really serious. That’s not to say I didn’t **ahem** date a lot of people - it just never really…

Whatever helps you sleep at night.

OK... so in the far more likely event he cheats on you a couple times with same person, or a few times with different people over the course of a few years, etc...

You already hurt them when you cheated. The infidelity is the fuck up; not being honest afterwards.

Really!? THAT’S what you learned? Of course your betrayal hurt her more than it hurt you...

Pointless for you. You’re being kind of self-centered.

People have notoriously poor insight into whether or not something was a “one-time mistake.” Particularly when the mistake is a result of poor impulse control.

I don’t think most people cheat.

You’re going to have to source those studies... I’m not sure I buy it.

That’s the problem - these people view any situation with any level of nudity to be immediately sexual (thanks a lot puritans). These same people also object to women breastfeeding in public.

You must be a troll. I refuse to believe you are this obtuse.

And who is the arbiter of who is allowed to go into a women’s restroom? Are there random genital checks?

What exactly goes on in public restrooms where you live that you think a trans woman would go into a bathroom and start flopping her dick all over? That totally defeats the purpose of someone attempting to live and pass as woman, no?

So, it’s your belief that trans women go through the whole rig-a-ma-role of changing their identity from male to female for the sole purpose of watching other women poop?

“Look cool, but not like you trying to look cool.”