I tell people the theme is “me+fiance” It’s anything I like (or anything he likes). It’s a combination of things we like all mixed together. It’s food that we like. Succulents because my mom and I grow them. We picked the songs because we liked them. etc etc etc If anyone asks questions about why I chose something,…

The way my very-formal-mom’s side of the family does bridal showers is that it is something that friends of the mother of the bride throw as a way to help set you up? Idk... it hasn’t happened yet. But I know it’s something that you never ever ever throw for yourself and your mother shouldn’t throw it for you either…

There's also not going to be change in the church if everyone who disagrees with it just leaves. It's a cultural thing for me as much as anything else. I've grown up with the people and routine and rituals and they've structured my life that way. I think of it a lot of the way in the way I think of being an…