My boyfriend lost his virginity in a non-consensual way when he was 15 to a 16 year old girl and his is still messed up about it. I don't care whether or not she is joking... this Schmeckles is PISSED

Yeah, I've heard some funny rape jokes, but not ones where the humor is in, "It would be so ironic if I said I raped someone, because everyone knows pretty blonde ladies aren't rapists. Get it?"

Yeah...whether or not an individual thinks rape jokes can ever be funny, I think it's pretty easy to agree that the formula for successful hilarity definitely isn't "I raped this person."

Are you drunk? Every comment is condemning her, as is the post itself.

I just... even if you did think you raped him, why is that something you'd say so glibly? Like, if you really believe you maybe did something that was inappropriate in the past (hindsight etc) then wouldn't you look back on it with regret and even shame? Not randomly throw it out as a bon mot? Jesus these two are the…

Does she hear herself? I mean, fuck. That is grim, man.

Way more people would think this is nooot funny if a man had said it. Honestly, what a creepy fucking thing to say (and hopefully there's no truth to it???).

My favorite part of his personal twitter feed is when he posted this pearl of wisdom...

Don't fuck with Retta OR Donna Meagle.

seriously:

I wish the people trying to "help" us by perpetuating this attitude that maybe these things could be avoided if we made different choices would just shut the fuck up and take responsibility of how much they are a part of this goddamn problem.

To those who think maybe it would have been better if she had done nothing: at what point is a woman allowed to assert ownership for her own body?

And I am Groot.
I am Groot I AM Groot!

As a dog, I find this absolutely absurd.

I would like to take this opportunity to confirm for the record that I am also a cat.

Except there is a very good chances that the whole lawsuit may have been a scam. Remember Singer was apparently not even in the same area at the time. There is really no way to know if it was genuine or not.

I don't. The reason the previous lawyer quit, and the reason he can't find a new one, is because this guy doesn't have a case.

This is such a fantastic point. Just the other day, I was chatting with a friend who dates and sleeps with both men and women pretty equally. She identifies as bisexual. We were chatting and it came up that I've fooled around with some women, but consider myself heterosexual. She told me I was bi.

And if this woman becomes involved in the lbgtq community as you apparently are, let her announce it. But it sounds as though she intends to change nothing and just sort of put it out there in the ether for people to stare at for no apparent reason. Again, if the subject comes up, whatever. But to make a big hoopla…

I am not saying she should hide it. Should the subject come up, should someone say something inappropriate or bigoted, should she find herself in a position to help, let her say something. But to make an announcement when she has no intention of making it a part of her life seems strange.