Yes, I agree re: your business trip example. In that situation I would get tested for STIs and if I were in the clear, I wouldn’t say anything and write it off as a mistake and not worth ruining marriages over.

PS: You are technically a partner in this relationship because you were a sexual partner to someone in the relationship! Jane’s advice here is shit.

LW3: BLOW IT UP. It’s an awful situation to be in for sure. I feel for you, how awful to find out you’re the other woman. Good on you for dumping the MF’er.

OMG YOURE KIDDING ABOUT THE Airbnb experience. LOLOL. What a serious ‘designer’ and ‘actries’

Excuse me the unworn wedding gown was Vivienne Westwood.

SECONDED as a Wisconsinite.

My fiance and I smoke pretty regularly, so I guess I have a ‘tolerance’...or at least I thought I did. He had the bright idea to do a gravity bong ‘now that we have our own sink’ (we recently bought our first home) #adulting.....I nearly died. Like so, uncomfortably high. I couldn’t even look at my phone because the…

Ugh. This book was SO GOOD, I know the movie is never as good as the book, but JLaw doesn’t play a psycho well at all. Overall the movie was not really great.

She’s just mad b/c the Kardashians did a much better job at making people care about the reality show version of Seinfeld’s show about nothing.

I don’t understand what Bella Throne is. Also, her teeth look v strange? Maybe it’s her lip injections? Maybe she needs a white strip? IDK.

I love ice cream. I could actually eat an entire gallon of ice cream in one sitting. With chocolate sauce made of baking chocolate and sweetened condensed milk and butter. And you know what I love more than that? Custard. Fucking Kopps custard.

10/10 agreed. And I can eat it and not feel like shit about myself the next day. Win.

Relationships are so interesting.

I’m interested to hear people’s take on if the US should switch to a non-tipping system, similar to Europe.

$5 is the difference between making rent and eating? You need to find a new serving job if that’s the case. Also, the law (used to in WI) state that if you were paid minimum wage w/ tips and you did not make regular minimum wage with your hourly + tip, that you’d be paid the difference so you’d be at regular minimum…

A woman’s body isn’t neutral. A woman’s body is everyone’s business but her own.

Seriously. I have been in a couple situations where I needed out of a lease. Of course I asked if I could just have out first because - why not? But when I was told no, I understood that I signed a contract, and there was no use bitching about it, or being rude to the landlord (I rented from private people, not a big…

IDK. Sounds risky. Maybe just keep the tampon in and do some hand stuff until your period goes away.

I don’t understand the judgement over people wanting to celebrate their love with a big party with everyone they love. For a lot of people, it’s fun to plan a party. Also, I’m pretty sure the majority of people (myself included) talk about their expectations of marriage before they even get engaged. If you want to…

IDK. Jay-Z was dragged (rightfully so) on an ENTIRE album. The entire world knows that Shawn Carter cheated. And if she was okay with saying it on an album for the entire world to see/hear, I’m sure he was throughly ‘punished’ at home.