It seems sometimes that any person who presents an extreme position in public will have some kind of balancing, countering or invalidating dynamic hidden in the shadow self.

Yes, it seems that way. Especially if the public moralism is accompanied by a holier-than-thou sort of attitude (like, I have it all figured out, why don’t you?). There are publicly moral people who seem to be the real shit, and they usually aren’t judgey which is how I think you can tell them apart. Maybe?

This story is relevant to my interests. I had sex in a dressing room at Banana Republic once, in the middle of the day. Nobody was publicly humiliated and I definitely was not calling him husband. I feel for the couple.

He’s been doing that since the 90’s. Seriously, when he went after Pryor, Murphy and others, I knew something was up with this guy. You don’t publically degrade and humiliate other comics to the extent he did without it being a way to deflect suspicion from yourself. That’s true of everybody really. All those…

Yes, please bury all your feelings and never share them. Only women with bone-dry vaginas should be allowed to whine in Jezebel’s world.

Dear Tony,

My depression didn’t start until after I’d been married for seven years and it hit like a truck, honestly, where one day I was, I suppose, ok, and the next day I nearly had a nervous breakdown and after that I was just functioning...going to work, coming home, taking a hot bath, going to bed...because sleep was the…

That’s because it’s like a fucking amazing movie. Literally a rock would love it, and rocks can’t see or hear.

Pretty sure that reason is the schedule. Four days a week can be pretty brutal, I imagine, and leaves you zero time for other projects. It’s no coincidence that John Oliver decided to make his a once-a-week affair.

Living is selfish too **eats a hamburger made out of the carcasses of several cows with some strawberries picked by an underpaid migrant worker while living in a house made of wood that also caused several trees to be cut down just to be placed there**

Have you ever tried to committed suicide?, when i did it i did not think that i was being selfish at the time because i thought that ending my life was the best thing, i thought that everyone around me thought i was burden and i was just making things worse, i thought the best thing would be if i was not around. When…

Well, it seems that a gender was at a disadvantage so efforts were made to help that gender keep up, which was received negatively by the other gender. Where have I read that before?

Joyce is the kind of customer that would have complained if the roles were reversed - if she were eating out with her family and a loud-ass group wouldn’t stop singing, you know Joyce would be calling the manager over and asking for her meal to be comped.

My entire life, I thought my family was comfortable, but not particularly wealthy. My parents divorced, both had modest homes in the not affluent part of town, I thought we were firmly middle class people living middle class lives doing middle class things. I went to a high school that had a low of lower income…

If he had answered in earnest about his methods he would have told them some stories of chairhumping brutality and manipulation. He may have been an effective leader. But I question the extent to which it is right to expose children with leadership potential to the idea that violence and manipulation are effective…

Ugh. I can’t believe we live in a society where people like this are looked up to and have all this media attention when there are lots of more deserving people, heroes even, who don’t have their lives glamorized and endlessly obsessed over by the media. They aren’t “cool”, they’re vicious and cruel and prey on the…

Uff, this is such a terribly condescending article. As an Indian urban woman from a city, I find her tone patronising to say the least. I have no desire to defend the deep patriarchal mindset that most Indian men, and several women, in my country swear by - but c’mon, this is ridiculous. She goes to a semi-urban part…

“to make his world complete, he wanted a little boy, an heir,” says a source close to West.

Seriously. My grandparents fled China during the civil war that followed Japanese occupation, I get eye twitches whenever people take one side or the other so feverishly and are convinced that I’m just an ignorant idiot who doesn’t know enough.