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yes. yes.

‘Yeah, just don’t change anything’ said no victim of racism ever.

“I am a conservative, I like to keep what we have.”
Like slaves and racism.

If you like small people, this is my 1-year-old watching the river otters at our local science museum. If you’re not into kids/not into redheads, know that the otter startled her and she started crying right after this. Otter beats baby. Again.

Non-celebrity and non-religious. Most of the “good news” sites and lists are of the “ain’t God grand?!” variety. No offense intended, but I’d like to read about good things that *people* do for each other.

Is anyone else tired of being a member of the female sex? Anyone else tired and depressed and disgusted by these continuous and never-ending stories of men doing inexplicable things to girls/women simply because they can? Is it affecting you to the point that you can't interact with people anymore? Because I am about

I know, this stuff deserves to be news too. We need it. Also there should be like business hours for heavy crap. I’ve read some pretty grim shit on here at like 8 am and I was “whoa, NOT a good way to kick things off”.

Thank you. AND it doesn’t have to be fluff!

I get that. And yet and still, sometimes, to use your example, you have to “catch” your kids doing something good, and let them know you noticed and appreciated it. Otherwise, all we ever get is punished.

SO, SO GOOD. THANK YOU.

And/or people doing something good. There are so many people doing good and doing well. They should make the grade.

SECOND!

WE NEED A RECURRING DAILY GOOD NEWS (NON-CELEBRITY RELATED) POST ON JEZ. MY BRAIN CAN NO LONGER TAKE ALL OF THE MADNESS AND HURT IN THE WORLD IN ONE SMALL SPACE.

Ha! My father did this. So as not to pay for child support. He thought he outsmarted her and the system. So, my mom gave up, all those court dates taking its toll on her, and just busted her ass working 1, 2, or 3 jobs at the same time sometimes to take care of four kids. Now, she’s got Social Security and a pension.

A happy story today, yaaaaaaay!

not to be a complete jerk, but I honestly feel like this attitude is why we still have such a long way to go with how CSA is dealt with and why there are so, so, so, so many abusers who get away with is for decades and decades and have scores and scores of victims: because it is uncomfortable and upsetting and a lot

Sympathy isn’t a zero sum game. I think it’s possible to feel bad for his victims, hope they have gotten help and also acknowledge that he was subjected to a bunch of really personality warping stuff.

Seriously. There are no words for how disgusting and inexcusable that is.

Did you ask your partner before you left this comment

“What is controversial about what I’m about to say, I will present in question form, rhetorical or otherwise,”