No, it's not. You're perfectly right to worry and take caution! I hope you'll keep far away from him and others like him in the future and I'm sorry you had to experience that.

Question: You knew this and refused to let him take your Picture. But why in the WORLD were you in a relationship with a guy like this???????????????????????????????????????

It scares me because it means a lot of women have to reconsider that the love and trust they give another person isn't returned in the same way because even after carefully weeding out the "man" thing, turns out, they just hide it.

It's almost as if he didn't see her as her as a human being with equal rights the way she saw him. But then what exactly are women supposed to do if even the ones we think are on our side turn out to be like this and keeping up a facade?

There is no use in trying to talk with readers of the "new Jezebel" who don't know this used to be a different place. They are all "celebrity news whoo hoo" and don't get it.

Hey, a picture of my nose, on Jezebel!

Maybe you are just not looking.

Germany. How is this not a thing in most towns????

It does affect how you see people as you just pointed out that you never met somebody who is not loved. Which isn't true. You cannot step out of your door without doing so.

So you float above the streets somewhere and use a helicopter and limousines so you actually never see people?

How to figure out if I'm being sexist: reverse genders.

That is the thing: I have seen people spout the most horrible racist, misogynist, classist, homophobic, ableist or just plain hateful shit - with their actual Facebook account with full name, work place and all their friends, family, neighbors, co-workers connected to it.

You were surely not the one responding reasonably but sure everyone challenging your behavior is an "insanely mean spirited moron" You are getting very defensive. I have no interest spending my time bickering with you but please take a moment to think about what and how you are saying something in similar situation…

That's not what you did at all and you know it as the people who told you that there might be something wrong with the Stockholm Syndrome way you replied to him trying to please him.

Maybe you should re-read the comments you replied to and the way you replied to them and the common factor that I was not the only one calling you out on it (without knowing of those other conversations as I only saw them in your reply). We did that for a reason.

Well. Except that I read "adult film star and MMA fighter" (I have never heard of the two ever and I barely know what an MMA fighter is) I though "of course".

What else these few posts I read made me think about because they were all "haha....these whiny stupid bitches are so upset and flipping their shit, awesome, and I thought it would be a boring day at work" is that I assume quite a few of these guys actually don't enjoy rape per se. It doesn't give them whatever it…

I fought with myself and then proceeded to click and all I could think about why we as a society don't do anything about this, Because we could.

You learn a person has died and your first reaction is to rejoice, cheer and share that feeling with the world.

a) who would do such a thing?