I don't know if it's tough. Something about his teeth bother me. They're too — straight.

I think you are right. I think you are saying that some people here are saying they have the right to define others by their criteria and that it doesn't matter what the individual thinks at all. That's pretty dreadful! Of course it makes you even more confused as to what is or isn't feminist! You can't please…

Why should it? Who are to decide what a feminist should do? I can say I am a Jew or Christian or whatever, but never go to temple or church. It doesn't change the fact that I identify that way. If she identifies as a feminist, that's how she identifies.

Everyone has their own type. That's why I don't say people are ugly — someone else will always find them attractive. I just don't really get him. Something about his teeth...I don't know what it is.

Am I a stripper? Nope. But if were an attractive young woman, I wouldn't see a problem with it. Do I encourage people to become dancers? I encourage people to do what I think will give them the most happiness. Honestly, had my friend asked me at that time (she didn't) I would have had no problem with her decision…

It's not a good face for a girl. Not at all.

What is wrong with being a topless dancer? What? Why should she have killed herself working two jobs or put with roommates when she didn't have to? And why should she take charity from people who COULDN'T do what she could (be a topless dancer) — the very young or the elderly, etc. — and who needed the charity far…

Yeah — if it looks like her. He's not...my type.

Oh, I 'm over 40. That's how I know there are different waves of feminism and that people define it differently.

I have always loved what I call "fucked-up teeth." SO SEXY! Patricia Arquette has THE BEST. I also like Kirsten Dunst's and Anna Paquin's. I don't like "perfect teeth." I hate it when people tell women like Patricia to "fix" their teeth? Why? To destroy their charm and appeal? Please.

Your definition of greed is wanting a place to live, food to eat, and an education. Okay. How many other people out there think it's greedy to want a place to live, food to eat, and an education? Anyone?

Do you think that all a person has to do is identify as a feminist to have her life choices affect the opportunities for women at all? I can say, "I'm a feminist" all day long — it won't change a thing for anyone. A doctor can be a feminist, a sex worker can be a feminist — but their identification as feminists will…

You compared my friend to a pyramid schemer, so, yeah, you said some horrible stuff.

You sound very reasonable and this should be a part of the conversation.

Who knows what is feminist? No one can even agree on a definition of feminism. Dancing seems like sex-positive feminism to me. As society changes, so does feminism's relationship to sex. I don't believe that most early feminists would have approved of sex before marriage (some did). But, as society accepted that,…

True. However, when you chain a 6 year old to a loom and make him work 16 hours a day, it's not much of a life. And we support that when we buy whatever he wove on that loom. In fact, I would call him enslaved. However — that is NOT a reason NOT to buy something a weaver in the US makes. And just because there…

Okay. I see that you are one of those people who will take ANYTHING and make it bad. Since she likes to go to pediatric cancer wards and cheer up the kids every week and therefore does it — she must be selfish! Because she likes it! How selfish! How wretched! This selfish woman shaves her head and spends her…

She identifies as a feminist. And she's also a lesbian. And Mexican. Just some information for you. So, she made that choice as a feminist, lesbian, Mexican — and it worked out well for her and many other people.

You could — it's something I have always found VERY attractive about her — well, just about everything about her is appealing. She's hot.

Uh, what is your point? Should white women who can find empowerment and money through porn NOT do it because not everyone does? For the third time today, I will write about a friend of mine who became a topless dancer at 19 because she had no one and nothing and this way she could pay her rent, buy her food, have a…