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Agreed. At the same time, there's male privilege in Elton John being able to publicly own his drug using Bad Boy days while still being treated with respect. When women live that, people automatically treat them like damaged agency-less rape victims and Lilo-types.

My problem has always been that I *want* to dress nicely, but I always have jobs where the dress code is jeans-and-a-tshirt. I’d never get dressed up to make slime with toddlers or run around a stage with my drama students. Or I’m not working and it doesn’t feel worth it to put on something cute just to get the

Um, moved my book collection four separate times? Packing and moving books is not all that different from moving kitchenware or furniture.

Jez gonna Jez.

I quit smoking for about a year and a half and then in the midst of a stressful illness and work situation, I picked up smoking again *like that* and smoked for 7 months before quitting again in July of this year. Quitting alcohol helped a ton, but man. I would cut someone for a cigarette on a good day even before I’d

Hold up - how was Noel a shit boyfriend? Ben was the shit boyfriend, Noel was the obviously “better” choice whom dear Felicity just couldn’t love, no matter how hard she tried. Those time travel episodes when she went back and “chose” Noel KILLED me.

And then they opened a boys’ school! It’s always the question for women authors writing semi-autobiographical characters: let them fulfill their literary potential, or no? So, Anne of Green Gables writes her baking soda story and that’s about it, while Emily of New Moon becomes a for-real author and ditches the

but think about it for a moment, people under eat now on purpose 

Ah the luxury of having never bought an item from Walmart. You obviously have never lived in a small town with poor parents, and the only place for 30 miles is a Walmart. In rural areas, it’s a necessity.

They are the worst, and yet I’ve already watched the revival about three times. I also currently have episode 7 season 4 on in the background as I’m doing work.

Might have been over a girl...

I’m so glad I don’t have to work in a restaurant. In my line of work, people only feel entitled to comment on my hair, my weight, my voice, my nail polish, my make-up, my clothes, my shoes...but they can’t fire me for it.

People just go out of their way to discredit women who have been assaulted, abused, raped... Sure, all victims are in cahoots plotting in some musty basement! Plotting what exactly I don’t know though.

Does anyone else agree that Gloria Stuart’s performance was not good? Can we stop pretending like it was?

This has nothing to do with Calvin Harris. This has nothing to do with Ed Sheeran. But it has everything to do with my first night out of the grays, and trying to prove a point to my MiL. Matt Dillon in the 1980's and 1990's was fine as hell. Any dissenters?

Cute emails, but I was bleeding into my underwear and not giving a shit about it way before THINX was a gleam in Agrawal’s eye.