neverhadchill
LoriHummingbird
neverhadchill

Sometime kids face way more pressure than adults realize. They can hide tons of pain behind their smiling faces. Sometimes they’re burdened with worrying about adult issues...even if they’re still playing with dolls. Kids think about their purpose in life too, they pay attention to everything around them. They’re

Man, what a bombshell to drop on Mom. I still haven’t told my mom how depressed I was as a teenager, and that the only thing that stopped my depression from self-harming was my anxiety and fear of death.

...Sooooo was it just a slow ass week in music or something? Cuz...I mean I get people watching the video, but if you listen to the song on it’s own, it’s like...not...great? Or did video views count towards it being the number one song nowadays?

lol let me get out of here

Bruh, trust and believe, you don’t have to worry about that at all.

So true. Her performance this week absolutely justified her sashay, but her talking heads are always gold, and I’ll miss them considerably.

Snatch Game has always been a mixed bag at best, it’s just that people tend to remember only the best performances rather than the ho-hum and/or cringeworthy ones. But I submit that a few cringeworthy performances alongside some greatness is what makes for the best Snatch Game episodes, and this season delivered both

Come on. “[B]ut this week’s Snatch Game was at times painful.” To quote Alexis Michelle, “Tamar, have you seen the show?” Every. Single. Snatch Game is painful, at times, to watch. Go watch Season 4's if you really want a cringe-fest.

Everybody gets wound up about Snatch Game being “the worst ever in season X”, but it has ALWAYS been very hit and miss. Consistently, a few queens kill it, a few are safe, and a few suck. If we’re lucky, the ones who suck are such a hot mess that they are still fun to watch (S4 bottom row, I’m looking at you.)

Maxine Waters was not “Eh”, it was down there in the “Yikes”. I wish Monique could just be the narrator for all remaining episodes of the show though....

Even if you’re ok with what she said about black men, are we gonna flex like she didn’t shit all over Filipinos and promote colorism even in her joke? Filipinos are the blacks of Asia and therefore don’t count is offensive as hell. You can love black women, hate R.Kelly, Cosby and not buy the new Ye AND think that

I think the Filipino comment definitely is the part that’s really problematic here (I am Filipino). It kinda touches on a really sensitive subject about Filipinos in comparison to other Asians.

Oh, please. I’d much prefer it if white women were clear that they had white privilege, which is what Michelle Wolf specifically did in one of her last appearances on the Nightly Show. You know what happens when white women are “fine” with being mistaken for black?

Yep. They want to “help” without actually having to change anything or upset their comfort levels in any way. It’s the “overcome, just...over there” mentality.

I clicked on the tweet and one of the responses was a white women who talked about how these white parents go and pay thousands of dollars for tutoring to pass the tests. And then not only that pay psychologists for fake diagnoses or so they can get into gifted programs or be able to take tests with no time limits.   

The behavior of the parents is why I laugh when folks try to tell me a public school education is equal regardless of if you live in the city or the suburbs.

Ok yes there is a difference. Power dynamics are involved, especially when men abuse women. Men are typically more physically imposing and use that to hurt women. So yeah theres a difference.

There are degrees to this. Chance the Rapper’s bad timing and optics tweet literally made him the media darling for Fox News. I won’t throw the whole artist away, but he will get the strong side-eye for awhile.

hmmm, i dont like my orignal comment to you because it seems like i’m implying that she deserves something. that’s definitely not what i wanted to say or imply. i just dont like nicki for her silence on jehlani. period. i hope she is safe.