Pregnancy is a potential consequence of sex. If a man isn’t prepared to accept that his sexual partner may choose an abortion, he shouldn’t have sex.

Today I booked the Paris hotel for the surprise family trip. Mr C now wants to explore hotel for a couple of days then transferring to an Air Bnb so I am crafting my next pack of lies for that discussion. One more couple needs to do their flight then we’re all set except for the incidentals. This is a lot of work & my…

It’s not self-righteous or whiny to get the pay that you are owed! Even if it’s a small amount. Say something like:

See this cute senior pup? This guy, who at 12 years should know better, BOLTED from the car today at a bank near a busy intersection. Lots of yelling ensued. He halted, turned toward the drive-through lane and further traffic, and then turned again, making a 360 degree circuit around the car. Mercifully when I leapt…

Hey everyone! Still doing well, after the stomach virus that literally almost killed me by causing heart failure. Ugh. I'm still so glad to be home from the ICU, and I'm appreciating the little things like not having blood drawn every morning at four o'clock, and being able to eat more than Italian Ice and apple…

Hi Jezzies, so as most of you know it’s been a really crappy few years and money has been short, especially so the past few months. Someone must of been looking down on me because this week I came into some money, not a life changing amount but enough to give me breathing space. It came at the right time because a…

I posted here a few weeks ago about how I had interviews coming up and I GOT MY DREAM JOB AHHHHHH!! I did not think the interview went well. But I am STOKED! I can’t really wrap my head around it all. On top of that, they are giving me more seniority that I expected and a nice bonus. I just. . . gah! This employer is…

The semester I went for study abroad, I ended up living in a house with three Swedish models. Every cliche ensues-they are bitchy, they routinely backstab each other, they’re slobs, none of them are very bright. I am not very attractive and I am very academic-nerdy, and the whole semester unrolls like a terrible…

I met a guy on Campus Kiss, an early 2000s dating site for students. He was originally from the city I was going to school in but lived about two hours away. I lived in shared housing with five other girls and we were all very sex positive and genuinely excited for each other’s experiences, which was cool. I prepared w…

This going to get a bit graphic, you’ve been warned!

I’ve seen plenty of bad shit (puke, diarrhea, screaming violent lunatics), but instead I thought I’d share the best thing I ever saw on the subway. This was at, like, 6:30am on a Saturday:

This seems like the perfect opportunity to share this picture, which has captivated me for the past few days:

By the time I was 16, I’d endured years of: misogynistic tirades from my father who called me a prostitute when I was in second grade (learned a new word that day!); ongoing paranoia from both my parents that I’d have sex despite not knowing what sex was at the time (lower elementary school); bullying at school from…

Psst. Hey, everyone. It’s okay to like Rent. I know, I know, a lot of folks crap on nowadays. But, maybe like me, you grew up in the 90's and lived in the margins with the wierdos and outcasts. Or, maybe you were LGBTQ than and having something so mainstream celebrating your identity back than was thrilling. Maybe you…

Watching Rent as an adult is kind of like watching The Little Mermaid as an adult. I still find it enjoyable, because I love the songs, but mostly I’m just questioning why people thought they could get away with not paying rent in NYC, and feeling kind of bad for Benny the whole time. Yea, I know he made an agreement…

I haven’t posted lately because there hasn’t been a while lot new in my world. Just me and Bucky trying to save money... Which involves a lot of not going out to human fun places. But we are going to a lot of puppy fun places! I took him to the Pier today and he loved all the fishy smells and other puppies.

Hi from Pumpkin Andy’s Wine Bar and Cat Palace! I’m listening to the Gourds and cleaning/laundrying/defurring my life, about to have a kombucha and vodka. I put a bunch of new books on my Kindle, candles are burning and there’s another edible in my very near future. The Bartender has been making my lunches for the…

So I’d say my first baby shower, or should I say my husbands baby shower, was a bit over the top.

Wait, sorry this is a belated reply to the eating/drinking gross shit but I HAVE to share it.

She paid $233 WITH INSURANCE? I’m flabberghasted at how utterly FUCKED the system is at perceiving who is committing which crimes in this story!