A couple of weeks ago, many of you sent well-wishings and hugs to me for my dad, who was in the ICU due to complications from cancer treatment. They were needed, and appreciated.

Very hard day today.

I’m just having the worst problems with men for forever, I think I want to go it alone. I know it’s pretty renegade, but I think I’m going to try it.

Some Thanksgiving treats! With just us, we made everything smaller! My carmel apple mini bundt cakes with hot carmel sauce were to die for.

My mom once made gingerbread cookies so toxic even the squirrels wouldn't eat them in the middle of a terrible midwestern winter.

Election day was the 4-year anniversary of my father undergoing emergency brain surgery. I voted for Hillary, got in my car and drove into the heart of Trump country. Today is the anniversary of his funeral. My best friend has been completely awol during all of this, even though she's well-aware this was going to be a…

Re: Murkowski, I got nothing.

I’ve never been a good liar, so I can’t really remember any big or funny lie that I tried to get away with, mostly just the regular kid stuff. I remember I lied once to my mom about eating the baby carrots she had packed for me at school before it crossed my mind that she would easily discover that wasn’t true when…

Wildest lie? In my childhood, people would ask me “Are you doing okay?”, and I would answer “Yes”.

Long post alert!

The best part is that you know they thought this announcement was a huge flex, but now when anyone Googles their names among the top hits will be these articles about him being a cheater. 

Dear People of Color,

bad feminist Roxane Gay appeared in a video for Reuters

They should have demanded he ask the Academy to be reinstated in person.

I doubt it was anything about the kids. More that it was a convenient excuse to jump a sinking ship.

Another cop “fears for (his) life,” another Black man is dead. Like fucking clockwork.

For me, progressive disability forced me to confront the ideas of “manliness” I was carrying around.

The unsung casualties of this pandemic cannot be overstated.

Well we could strap some of them to rockets for science.

Yours is the only one so far where I gasped in pain out loud.