Please take your time, you’ll feel what you have to do soon enough. Don’t jump into anything and take the time to care for yourself , it’s well worth it. You will absolutely find a rope to hold on to

I’m also going on 36. I’m sorry you have had such a shitty week. Things like that can leave you feeling really ill and anxious for a long time afterwards.

Ditto

Actually, it would be. They do alright with the nicknames. Northie has a sweet sound to it, but North is also a very stern name.

Star West is slightly grown-uppy, like a name you pick when you reinvent yourself after feigning your own death and skipping town and maybe starting small somewhere else, maybe working at the record store in El Paso, Texas, but yes. I like it better than Chicago West.

Eerie names.

That is a third degree one.

Chicago sounds very masculine to me, but that’s because it ends in “O”, and that’s almost a guaranteed manly man thing in Spanish

I had Alabama Churchill in mind. It melds the beauty of Geography and History in a beautiful, unisex sorta way.

Samesies. Gobsmacked rocks!!!

I’m so sorry, I can’t begin to imagine the pain. Congratulations on having left that far behind you, it must take incredible strength.

This is a stab in the dark, but I wonder if when someone is convicted on molesting their children / stepchildren therapy and monitoring should be mandatory for the remaining spouse and child.

Her now estranged daughter would agree. It’s a double stabbing. Being hurt when you’re a child in an horrific way, and having to face the ultimate betrayal from the person supposed to love and protect you. That kind of pain must be fucking horrific.

Yep. That’s lucky that it doesn’t run in your family. In mine it’s widely extended among the men, and I think that while my dad was alright with it (I never saw him feel much about it one way or another), for my brotjer who’s in his 20's it’s not that great. Because he faces that double combination you mentioned. He’s…

Harry looks a lot like Philip too

The Tragic Cinnamon Roll (TM)

And one Walder Frey

Gaaaaaaaaw

Aren’t we?

If I met him at a bar I’d totally find him attractive. It’s having seen the process of (slight) decay what’s turning people off his looks. Hell, I don’t look as I did when I was 20 either.