I'm 26 and I'm starting to feel that way. I'm not in a relationship, and I'd like to be married for a little while before having a baby... But I have no idea how many years it's going to take me to get to that point and I worry that it might be too late to easily conceive and have a healthy baby by then. It's hard not…

I'm not saying you don't have any reason to be concerned on the baby front, but basically everyone I know who seems to be bringing a baby into a stable loving environment is in their 30s. My mom was 38 when she had me, my cousin 35, my other cousin's wife was 36. I know the doctor felt like he was doing their job but…

I experienced this from my old gyno. It was really uncomfortable and I just sort of laughed it off. I'm now 31, soon to be divorced. I'd like a kid someday, so I feel your pain. I'm just trying not to worry about it. If it's meant to happen it will happen.

In my 20s, I said I didn't want kids because of how much work they are. I got married at 30, and went off birth control at the recommendation of a friend, and I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks along at 31. It wasn't until I was pregnant and then lost that baby that I really started to want a child.

No. Change doctors. That's fucked up.

When I was around 30, I remember a doctor – and this was at the gynecologist for the annual exam – asking "So...do you have an 'alternative lifestyle', I mean, since you don't have children yet?"