IM WEAK!!! LOL

THIS! Every single word. 

Man... FACTS! 

What really hit home for me is how they learned to love who each other really is, and NOT what they wish they were. Expectation is a road toward disappointment.

Right. I sometimes feel that the Democratic party does the minimum because they are use to getting the automatic black vote. We need to be more demanding. 

You hated being a mom to babies and toddlers! Gasp... ME TOO! In fact, I couldn’t stand being pregnant for the same reason you mentioned. Ya know, I never thought about the “dependency factor” of breastfeeding after a certain age. Makes sense Not judging btw.

THANK YOU!

I saw the documentary and while I empathize with what he was saying, I could’t resist saying, DUH! My annoyance is in that blacks have been misrepresented by “mainstream media” for decades and other cultures bought into it. They felt that since they come to Amerika, word hard, educate themselves, speak the Kings…

I love me some him but you can’t play both sides of the fence. He uses his ambiguity to his advantage and that’s fine I guess. But what you not gonna is play a part of someone who is a clearly defined black chocolate man, just because you have the same delicious build. Just like when Zoe S, played Nina Simone... She’s…

Disclaimer: I hate all abuse.

Exactly! Im DC born and raise and STILL have to get use to where some people brag to  live. “oh, so you just gonna move to 14th and Clifton and not blink huh...Ok Samantha”

Im officially done for the day!

exactly. As soon as there’s a “but” in the discussion, it dismisses everything else that was said. I love my black men and will stand behind them. I just wish more black men would acknowledge, accept and try to help bridge the gap between us instead of telling us the hardships that they endure as if we don’t know. 

“Either some of us have much, much, much, much, much more difficulty with analogy than I assumed or some of us just get real dumb real quick when called out. (I think it’s the latter.)“

Can we also speak on an underlining issue that bugs the crap outta me. Why do we insist that what someone does (celeb, priest, teacher etc) be associated with who they are as a person? Remy, like many others refuse to believe that Cosby could have drugged these women because of his PORTRAYAL of a good, upstanding man…

that part!