I think avoiding comparisons is a good rule of thumb— actually a rule in my household, impressions and comparisons are usually unkind. So "I miss your longer hair" or "I don't really like it" is fine, but "You look like a [comparison!]" is really not, and "here's me doing my impression of what you look/sound like" is…

It's completely disrespectful to dress that casually for a wedding.

As someone who thinks murdering your rapist is an ethically unimpeachable idea, I've given this some thought. Unfortunately, there are some logistical problems.

"Basically competent person" is SUCH an attractive trait. People need to get their shit together.

I will never understand why some people don't realize that it's completely valid for people to be attracted to people who are successful or have money. I realize "money" and "success" are not the same thing, but one is impressive and the other is incredibly important to basic…

This is even worse when you live with someone you don't love, because it's easy to just hate their guts eventually. I had a lovely, sweet roommate, where we had an awkward situation where we felt that we each did most of the cleaning and got resentful. An honest conversation and a google doc with the chores for each…

Get the netflix password!

I think that everything you're saying is a valid complaint, and I can identify with a lot of it, but one question— did he have a father?

Where on this sweet planet do you live, dude? Some mysterious place where most people encounter a dangerous break-in ever, in a lifetime, and in the event that it does happen a woman wouldn't die to protect her family because she figures hell, she did all the cooking? I mean, what?

You know a lot of moms who don't help look after pets? Or a lot of young couples who own homes with yards? Bitch please if you're not doing at least an hour a day, you're not doing "more."

I'm a woman, I don't do chores, and I don't feel bad about it.