Yeah, whoever told them not to bother with the show was a goddamn liar.

Maybe he should try not being a rapist.

Does he really not understand how bad this makes him look?

It's really ridiculous how often it happens. They have no self awareness at all, do they?

Hans…are we the baddies?

I didn't even know there was a second one! I'm obviously out of the cultural zeitgeist.

That's a deep poem, man.

That place is AMAZING!

I can imagine! And now I really want that bagel.

Hooray fellow C'ville people! And yeah, it's not like C'ville is lacking in good food options (I would teleport daily for a Bodo's bagel with herb cream cheese) but not a lot that's Southern. Though the po'boys at Miller's are pretty damn good.

I'm from Charlottesville and I remember this place too! I feel like the one problem with C'vile growing up was that there was nothing in town you could accurately refer to as authentic Southern food, but if you just travelled a bit you could definitely find it.

It's so annoying, especially when it happens at work and suddenly whatever music I'm listening to is interrupted.

It works if you have a more expanded definition of what sex is! Maybe once you have PIV, another time you go down on each other, another time you just do hand stuff, that kind of thing.

I would agree with you if I felt that Dan hadn't suggested cheating or opening things up as a first resort or just WAY too easily many times before. But yeah, on the whole I agree with you that GF is the problem here. I just think Dan is also being a hypocrite.

Yup. It's what I call myself!

I dunno, I like the idea of "fuck first". And also after. And maybe a third time too.

No need to feel awful about yourself. I'm turned off by parents on dating sites because I don't want kids, so they'll never be a match for me. That's just logical.

I mean, I like him, but come on. They couldn't choose a woman for this? They seriously couldn't?

I've actually done it. Or attempted it. It sucked.

It's not really about making those "hot" things malign or illegitimate: of course people are allowed to have their tastes and preferences and not be shamed for it. To me questioning the male gaze would lead to several things: