Well, he thinks I’m not putting myself out there enough. Which I haven’t really been. My job doesn’t start for a month so I’m at home most of time, which is perfectly fine for me! He finds that concerning and even more concerning when he invites me to a party with his classmates and I try to get out of it. Sadly this…

There isn’t but maybe he/we could create one? Anything more intimate would be better than a bar. Or a costume party with less than 24 hours to prepare (physically and mentally!)

Ooh get a cat! If you can get two that are bonded together even better!

Is there any way the facility can make an exception?? You deserve to have your cat with you for as long as possible.

What is it with my marriage lately? We recently moved to LA and we’ve just been crashing into each other. Every week it’s something. This week it’s the good old extrovert vs introvert thing. There’s almost nothing about this man that is introverted — he loves all things people, deeply cares for people, and just…

Sending love your way

Oh he is a doll! Hang in there, you’re doing what’s best for him!

It’s really simple: the way you justify asking that question is odd, plain and simple. We don’t need to know you envy the plight of the “mixed” (biracial is the appropriate term, btw) person, whatever that means, or bring up your sexual attraction to them, or your interests in people’s familial migration. You may be a…

God what is happening to this country?

I don’t remember this. What did he say?

Janet got a ton of shit for this. If JT really wanted to be a good dude about it, he should have stuck up for her or at least stood by her when the media and family council groups went after her. Who knows what happened behind the scenes, but in public he distanced himself and she got slut shamed like crazy.

He’s irrelevant. His last hit was that annoying song from the Trolls movie. Gross, get away.

Hmm. This is an interesting post, in a good way. And it’s really making me think. I remember Pink’s song some, and as I’ve gotten older, I’m trying to become more attuned to my own internalized misogyny and tendency to slut shame. I’m not always right, at all, but I am becoming more aware of the way society pits…

What did your husband do to remedy this? He better be out buying you breakfast for tomorrow

What does your partner do to deal with this?

Fuck almighty. Thank you for the advice!

Definitely. The moment they leave we’re going to talk and I will have a plan in place for the next time. He keeps asking me if I’m ok, all fucking week long, because he knows I’m not happy with this arrangement (or his parents close minded super conservative beliefs and his fathers constant put downs and fights with…

Bloody hell I should’ve talked with you before I got married.

YES. ALL OF THIS. THANK YOU FOR THIS.