Honestly, I got married for under 2k including the honeymoon. It is doable, but you have to be willing to compromise...well, everything besides your budget. The dress? Second hand. Alterations? Little old lady who was friends with the woman who ran the second hand shop where I bought the dress. The food? Made by my…

It ties with “penetrating” for me.

I’m a little bummed because in this picture it looks like the biebs and I now have similar haircuts.

Do you have a buddy you can go with? If you live near Tampa I volunteer. I love RPG! But seriously, someone who does not leave until you leave.

This was really enjoyable to read! I will be pitching the horror recommendations, especially the horror/comedy to my husband!

Hello! I find with my husband our best talks about this kind of thing happen when I am not upset. If he does something that makes me mad I wait until I am totally calm about it. And then I would start with “I know before you felt I was being materialistic. I would like a chance to explain that I miss how thoughtful…

They aren’t on Jez’s currently list of “acceptable women.” Which is weird, for a site that is supposed to be feminist... Not that feminists are not allowed to criticize women ever. It just seems like it is much harder for a woman to get on the “acceptable” list than a man.

Honestly, this makes me sort of like him. Like, not enough to follow him on Twitter or to listen to his music or anything. Just enough that when I hear his name I may not taste bile at all.

When I was 13 I had read up on feminist literature and could passionately defend my views. Granted, some of my views were stupid. This is not meant to brag. I was that well educated because I was being raised by insanely conserative super Christians and I needed to be ready to defend my use of the the even worse “F”…

See, that’s how I felt about Jess. He was an idiot as an angry 16 year old, but he was the only one truly intelligent and passionate enough for her, I felt. As a self-possessed, in touch with his feelings grown man, I felt like it would be a good fit.

Oh god...now I can’t unsee it and hate you forever.

Oh no worries! Florida is here to support you guys! Our brand of idiocy is often of the zany variety, but still frequently racist as fuck.

Every time I see Zimmerman I just can’t help but think “How is it humanly possible no one has killed him yet?” Clearly, I am a terrible pacifist.

My husband and I took one another’s names. I took his last name, and he took mine as his middle name. I am a fan of the compromise. The change in my last name stopped my ex from stalking me, and his taking on mine really cemented his whole “partnership of equals” thing.

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I am in love with Janelle. I lift weights to QUEEN, hula hoop dance to Yoga and now want to march to this anthem.

This man is on the very short list of males I find intensely attractive. Seriously, for men it’s like my husband, Chris Pratt, Idris Elba, and Anderson Silva before the steroid thing broke. Steroids are anti-sexy.

Well, of course. That is their job. Good thing an organization that prone to over-reactions doesn’t have access to guns....waaaaaiiiit.

The fact that she put forward a possible solution, instead of just talking about the problem, makes me respect her so much more. These are concrete ideas that truly qualify as a solid, safe middle ground.

Yeah, it really bummed me out. I mean he’s no Xena but...I didn’t think he was Kirk Cameron bad, you know? I feel like that’s a whole other level.