If it helps, kids just kind of do that. They take nothing seriously and use sick humor for shock value. Kids of all generations and time periods have been assholes. I imagine many of them will be taught out of it or will just mellow out with age and stop having something to prove.

Do you know how hard giving birth is on a body? I’ve almost died from three of my 5 pregnancies. I don’t blame any woman who doesn’t want to go through that.

You go think about it then, while we go and make decisions for our OWN bodies. Feel free to butt out after your likely-useless thought session.

Because a woman got pregnant, and she doesn’t want to be. That’s all you need to know.

We want to make our own decisions about our own bodies, not leave it up to men like you. Sit down.

Not everyone hass consented to the sex that created the pregnancy; and uh did you want to see a lot of actual children; not fetuses, suffer to teach women a lesson or something?

I’m on the side of the researchers on this one. Children and youth get a lot of ideas (and create their own worldviews) about the world from tumblr/instagram that go unchecked, specifically I’m thinking about all the pro-ana websites that contain a huge amount of misinformation and savvy media content that is for all…

Are you... are you stanning for Bobby Finger? Who is a gay man? Who probably has no opinion on breastfeeding? WTF? 

Seriously. Convincing people that the free, healthy food breasts make for small humans is somehow shameful or tainted or damaging to children because it comes from breasts (and oh no, men like to sexualize those!) has got to be one of the most damaging things foods industry marketing has ever done.

TBH that’s why I posted. To show it’s not always some shit-show of demanding toddlers and/or mothers with no control over their boobs. It’s a personal decision just like any other that works for some and not for others.

For those of us who didn’t breastfeed, your statement was a painful one. I gave birth to two kids in the 90s and chose to bottle feed both. The shame that was heaped upon me, starting with the nurses in the hospital, was unrelenting. The last thing any woman needs when they look and feel like a bomb exploded between…

If you’re going to come onto Jezebel and mansplain breastfeeding, you’re going to get some pushback. Opening with the boob joke and closing with “... a year of breastfeeding is enough.” is just asking for it.

They aren’t even subtle anymore. There used to be an art to trolling, sigh. 

Also a fellow penis owner. They aren’t being mean. They are reacting to your crassness. If I would have posted the same thing, my wife would have not been happy. We shouldn’t talk about women that way. 

“Maybe that’s why the lot of you are so damned unhappy.”

It doesn’t count cause it was just awkward and lecherous. I’m a fellow penis-haver, I know it can seem insular and cold round these parts but the way to navigate this river is to let it carry you instead of swimming against it.

Wanting those boobs back? a) They don’t belong to you, b) breastfeeding in no way interferes with sexual play, and c) if it does, perhaps you should stop talking about your partner’s breasts as your possession, or indeed reducing her down to her breasts.

I blame the fathers for not wanting those boobs back; my few years away felt like an eternity. ;-)

My grandmother was 8 years old when she a refugee during WW2. She recalls living in a bombed out train station with about a dozen other people, all women and children, no adult men. Her mother was pregnant when they fled and gave birth in the station. Everyone was starving and my great-grandmother could not produce…

I don’t know if this story is going to help or hurt. I want it to help. I’m also adopted, not that it makes any difference, just mentioning since we have that in common.