Well, I've seldom been more happy to have taken something out of context then; I just couldn't bring myself to stay quiet when I saw what seemed like a warning sign, having once ignored all of them myself.

HAHA Sometimes Kanye is just the best.

Exactly. Exactly. It's maddening when people let "perfect" become the enemy of "good" on topics of advocacy that matter so much. Nobody is saying we need to put up a statue in his honor, but christ, let's at least not pick him to bits when he's up there deliberately making comedy that has the potential to educate…

Gawd, I knew I would find this in the comments. The fact that it's feminists who are criticizing him the most proves that, once again, feminists are feminism's worst enemies. We say we want allies but I guess by "allies", we mean "silent masochistic punching bags". It's kinda sad when you're just as disgusted by the…

Erm, where does the groom feature on this fantasy order of importance list?

My husband and I ended up talking marriage a little earlier than either of us had expected due to the possibility of a move. And once it was out in the open, it was like, 'of course we're getting married' and then it was super annoying to wait until the actual engagement. That wait was only about 5 or 6 weeks but the…

First husband and I went to the jeweler, picked out the ring (not big, but very good quality). We went to our favorite bar, where he proposed, then bought a round of drinks for everyone.

Man, I have to agree with you. SO many "Well, my husband proposed to me while he was on the shitter!" stories about how casual people's proposals were, which is, no snark, fucking great for them. I think everyone should be proposed to in a manner that suits them. But I know people who would have thought this was the…

THANK YOU

I'm recently divorced and living alone for the first time ever. It's AMAZING. My ex husband was super critical and I am experiencing freedom like I've never known.

IT IS REALLY NOT COOL TO GET SPIKE INVOLVED IN THIS MESS, KARA.

Wrong.

This shall be my new greeting to my in laws. Thank you .

One of my favorite moments of Real Housewives of Bev Hills is that first season when Saint Camille takes the gang to visit Kels while he's doing Broadway. He answers the knock on his dressing room door and when he sees it's her, he gives the most awkward hug and greets his wife with a half-hearted "Oh, hello......you".

People snarking on people who have weddings, real clever and super original....you are just as special as the brides you mock.

Oh. My. God. I got stressed just reading that.

That's generally the idea. But even if the venue selected can't accommodate everyone invited, shouldn't you let the people who are no longer invited know that they can stop saving the date? It was fine that I didn't have to go to the wedding, honestly it was a relief, but I had better things to do that I didn't get to…

If you aren't going to be invited, what exactly are you saving the date for? I haven't been to a wedding since I was a kid, but I thought you only sent save the dates to actual invited guests. So confused.

The vendor should have told the bride, "Hey, we ran out of the doilies you liked. Here are some other options, so pick one, and I'll cut 20% off the cost of doing the remaining ones." That's how you fix a screw up as a vendor.

I had to deal with some poor RSVP etiquette: