Thank you! And I get to wear it really soon!!!!

Maybe! It was a genuine question

Is she not a nice person?

Wait, what? why? did they plan it that way deliberately?

Yes! or ones like these

Not with me in it, but this is a link

I am firmly in your tiny bust boat and have all the same insecurities - I personally didn’t want one of the looser fitting cowl-neck type dresses because I have a smallish frame and loose fitting clothes tend to make me look shapeless. I have gone for a VERY tight structured mermaid gown with strapless heart neckline…

Yep. He lost all hope of me ever gobbling his worm.

Well when we were actually physically in each others company he acted an awful lot like he wanted to have sex with me, but we were at work so it wasn’t going to happen there. So then he would send one of these texts and I would think things were about to kick off, but then nothing. He left the company quite soon after…

Yes yes yes! Exactly! Picking my bridal party was for me, at least, a very personal thing - these are some of the most important relationships in my life. WHY does anyone else need to tell you how many of those you are supposed to have???

I’m exactly like this! My bridesmaids have been wonderful but a few guests have done things that make me wonder if I have picked bad friends and if I am surrounded by friendships that don’t mean as much as I want them to. And I totally get your feeling of feeling sad for yourself. But I think you have the right idea…

Ughhh. Well her particular problem is that she isn’t centre of attention right now!

Oooohhhh. When I was a teenager this guy I was kind of interested in would always text me and be like ‘hey, you fancy going for a drink?’ and I would be like, ‘Yeah, defs. When you free?’ and then I would hear nothing for a couple of weeks, then again I would get a text saying ‘ hey, lets get that drink together’ and…

Yes! personally I am going with the gown that I can only just walk in and requires assistants, but that’s because I love clothes and this is the only time I can wear a full length couture gown,and dammit no one is taking that away from me! But yes yes yes - you want a big cake, have a big cake - you want have the…

The idea of trashing my dress makes me want to cry! I bought my dress when I was living abroad, where I had to protect it in my teeny tiny closet, trying not to squash it among all my other clothes, and constantly airing my room because my dick of a flatmate kept smoking in the apartment and I was worried it will…

Exaaaactly. Whenever I talk to people about things I have done well at work, I get this whole “OMG, you think you’re so good at everything”. Nope, I am not good to average at a whole bunch of things (many things), but if I work hard to be good at something - and I am very good at my job - why do I have to act like I…

If you think they are the kind of people to use a knit blanket (like would it fit in with their decor?) then I am firmly in the handmade gifts are the most special camp! Also, good blankets are not cheap so unless they specifically don’t like blankets (if that’s a thing) I imagine they would love it!

Yes! My partners step-mum is always giving us “christmas scented” candles on Christmas day, I don’t get it!

I’m really surprised people do just assume, like you say it’s modern times and not at all uncommon not to take the mans name.

I totally agree with you ASSUMING you have family/guests that are reasonable people who realise if they buy off registry then they can’t get mad if you don’t like what the bought. We decided to do honeymoon funding, mostly because we have lived together before and so have most of what we need, but also because…