I also think people assume “we’ve been together 10 years we should break up or get married” and realize they made the wrong choice.

I was one of these, I was with my dude for 7 years, live together etc, and we were married for about 2 years.

I’ll tell you what happened with mine. He saw marriage as “mission accomplished” after 10+ years of dating. Get married, check that box, now focus on other things. He assumed, probably unconsciously, that once we were married he would continue to be coddled by me (okay, fine) without having to put in any effort…

Aw, wish everyone wasn’t so knee-jerk judgy about this as I’m going through separation after 4 1/2 years of dating and 1 year of marriage right now. It turned out on top of the other fundamental issues in my relationship, I was unable to also tolerate cheating after 10 months of marriage. The loud whispers are…

Am too stoned to go through old kinja, but I’ve shared this before. Came across an older female cousin of mine, who has a very squeaky clean reputation, in an all girl sorority hazing style porn, during my attempt to get off one night. Felt immediately weird because I heard her voice before I saw her face. I was…

Amazing how you can describe the end of a 30-year marriage in 100 words or so...

I had a boyfriend who I liked a lot, and he had a plain notebook in his room and I went to steal a sheet to write a note. It was in plain sight on his desk.

My wife has an extensive dildo collection. When we first started dating (early 20s) she would wash them in the kitchen and just keep them in the drying rack. I said “you know, why don’t you dry them in the tub behind the curtain or something”. She said “cause nobody visits my apartment but you”. Fast forward a few…

I was riding my big wheel through a hotel my dad was looking after during off season(so he could write a book) and i came up to a room, where i shit you not, some guy in a dog suit was giving head to another guy. they both became aware of my presence and i fled. this was the 80s, before furries, mind you.

I’m 14 in 2002. Back then everyone in the family shared a PC. No individual smart phones, tablets, or laptops like kids nowadays get to have. So we shared time on the computer between me, my sister and my dad.

at a previous job, god, i cannot believe i’m saying this, a coworker asked me to help clean up her home computer because it had run out of space and she had no idea how that could be. since i knew she had a son, i had an inkling of what might be taking up all that space. and while i fully expected to find many large…

Once, while visiting an elderly neighbor, she asked me to get her reading glasses from the middle desk drawer. They were there, alongside a clear quart-sized ziploc bag filled (FULLY FILLED) with teeth.

Seeing through the window - a man shaving my aunt’s vag. It was messed up. I was young. Naturally, it’s burned into my memory...

Back in my escorting days I went to use the bathroom after a...session(?) & after I washed my face I opened his linen closet in search of a towel of some sort. I found a towel, but I also found a very elaborate shrine to Shelley Long. So. Yeah.

you’d bring your friends Leo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt. And then you would leave.”

Whoa. I really did not think this would happen. I hope he can build a life for himself surrounded by supportive people who can try to help him move past this as best he can. And I hope when he sues he gets a shit ton of money.

What she does in her free time really doesn't have much to do with that voice. Baby or not. She can sing.

My housemate had an affair with the wife of a radio talk show host. They would go over to her house while the husband was on the air. The host had this dog, Freddy, he talked about ALL the time.

I really like Mandy Moore (Tangled is my jam) and I hope her new project succeeds. She seems very down to earth and I’m so glad she dumped Ryan.

I watched one episode of this guy’s show because he did a reading of Fairuza Balk. He made Nancy from the Craft cry too.