And PAINFUL. The muscles along my ribcage get so sore from the bouncing!

Great to know, I missed your first post. I’m a 38G (ish) and it’s a real bitch to find comfortable sports bras. I do CrossFit (OK, I’m on a break due to a now-healed sprained ankle, but going back soon) and running and jumping jacks are just embarrassing.

A male “friend” of mine lectured me once while he was drunk about how I don’t “put myself out there” and chat/dance with guys who send me drinks. (Not saying it’s a super frequent occurrence, but it does happen, and I figure that’s their choice—I don’t owe them my time for their unsolicited booze.) My response:…

Ugh. Last time I was out with a group of girlfriends, this one dude kept coming up behind my friend and attempting to dance and she kept OBVIOUSLY shifting away... he wasn’t getting the hint so I finally stepped in and said “Dude! She’s not interested, take a hint!” She was so thankful. And thankfully I was there and…

Last time I went to the club a guy asked me to dance, so I did and in the middle of dancing he just casually rested his hand on my breasts. Like, yep, we danced half a song, I guess this is what happens now. When I walked away my friend was like ‘It seemed like you were okay with it.’

I’m with Jessica on this one. I once had to twist this guy’s arm while threatening to break it if he put his fucking hands on me one more time. This is after I had repeatedly told him to back the fuck up during one of those stupid “bear weekend” that was being held in San Francisco.

I might totally lose my feminist cred here but......well, I’m willing to be Jessica Williams’ body guard if she lets me touch her. Like, just an elbow or whatever. A toe knuckle. Her left pinky. I don’t care, I just totally get the impulse to randomly touch her because she is perfection and I hope that being in her…

Last time I went to a club this guy lectured my friends and I because apparently he’d been watching us all night and every time rando dudes came up behind us, we “ran away”. Sorry I’m shifting away from gropers. During his speech, another guy came up, put his arm around me tightly and asked if I wanted a beer. If he…

“judgmental, self-absorbed, and unreflective,” should be xoJane’s tagline.

I’m thinking that, if the complaint isn’t truly coming from a company policy, but a feeling by one of the staff members, the staff might forgo writing it down and just back off the whole situation entirely and let the customer be.

OMG genius. Stealing.

THAT IS REALLY FUCKING SMART

Ok, I’m fully on board (esp bc this is my struggle!) but...

It’s not. It’s fucking AWFUL having large breasts and you DO get treated like an asshole by asshole ALL.THE.TIME.

Hmmm...Judging from the pictures in the gym of other patrons and how this woman’s outfit is, I think it probably had nothing to do with her outfit at all or how she looked. It sounds like something personal. Like the staff explicitly didn’t like her for some reason and singled her out. I doubt it was anything to do…

I feel like i’m being scandalous and “naughty” if i wear anything that shows a whisper of cleavage or isn’t loose or covered up by a cardigan....

As a large busted lady, I can tell you from experience: big titties look like big titties, no matter what you cover them up with.

I have just finally gotten to the point in life where I am comfortable wearing tops that aren’t super loose or conservative because of all of the shit I got in middle school and high school for having large breasts in proportion to my frame. Fuck those supervisors for pulling that bullshit. It is that type of behavior…

God, tell me about it! I remember trying on bridesmaids dresses for a family wedding as a barely 20 year old and feeling SO inappropriate because of my breast size...I remember the comments from my own family about it...

People are always trying to police my tits. YOU CANT HOLD THESE TITS DOWN!