I try not to judge people’s sexual preferences.

Yeah, the usual response up here when anyone says something involving the USA? “Americans are fucked” and then we laugh. Our country isn’t all sunshine and rainbows but we must look like a utopia to a lot of Americans.

I’m probably not, but at least I am not “really serious about my Kegel training”. Can you actually imagine the need for an app to tell you exactly when to time the all-important clench and release, in hopes of having an “extra-awesome” orgasm someday? I would laugh but I feel such pity, I can’t.

The furry woodland creature has said 99% of it above - thank you for doing this. I would only add this is just one more bit of work on our bodies women are expected to do, and in this case it’s even weirder because we’re supposed to be working for better pleasure, as if changes in our muscles are The Way to better…

The issue is the presentation: IF UR NOT DOING KEGELS YOU ARE DOING ORGASMS WRONG. Lots of women like their orgasms just fine without kegels, whereas many, many women will develop bladder incontinence. But focus is always on female orgasms. Evidence: the title of this post. More evidence: brief mention that men also…

I can’t blame my particular mental health issues on anything but genetics, because they’re genetic, but on the other hand, none of my complete picture of mental unwellness was ever helped by growing up knowing that my parents could and would hit me. Or the fact that it actually took me a long time to unlearn the…

Look, I’m just going to throw this out there. Part of the blame for this problem needs to fall at the feet of people who oppose comprehensive immigration reform.

In all fairness, the “blank slate” of Barbie has always been a large part of her appeal. Mattel didn’t allow Pixar to put her in the first Toy Story movie because they don’t really like her having an established personality or backstory. (they changed their tune when the movie became a hit and boosted profits for the…

Sorry (not really) but screw you. Those who have fought in wars in defense of our country should get whatever they need when they return - whether that’s medical attention, mental health assistance, or education/training to transition to civilian life. What you term “complaining” I would term simply asking for the…

I think that’s right. I also think that, despite the fact that the Monster High dolls all have the same body type and basically the same face, they’re pretty visually distinct from each other because the hair and skin tones are extreme. There’s a reason to have more than one or two, just as there’s a reason to have…

but game developer is by herself, ohh wait she is wearing headphones, she is not alone

I always put it this way.

1/2 bathroom visits, a dude needs the seat down.
2/2 bathroom visits, a chick needs the seat down.
Thefore, 3/4 times that bathroom is used, the seat needs to be down.

Put the fucking seat down.

Doctors and nurses view an ER through their own eyes- to them it’s all running around and seeing patients constantly. To many, many patients it’s sitting in a room or cubicle or hallway for hours and not seeing anyone. Could a doctor look at a chart, see that a patient had been put into a room some time ago for a low…

Let’s reflect for a moment on Bessie Coleman - the first African American woman to obtain a pilot’s license... but not in America which wouldn’t allow her to learn to fly - even black flight instructors refused to train this manicurist. So she taught herself French and in 1920 traveled to France and learned to fly…

I met Amelia’s elderly sister, Grace when I was a little kid. I remember her as being rather regal and stately in a casual backyard picnic setting. She was kind and made time for me (as Amelia was to this young girl) and showed me a necklace Amelia had given her.

I first heard Tig’s routine about her diagnosis when someone sent it to me and all I could think bitterly was “Oh, great, just what I need.” I was flat on my back, 5 months into chemo at 33 for breast cancer. I was so goddamn sick of cancer and I wanted nothing to do with still more cancer.

Tig is one of my inspirations as a comedian. I felt so badly for her when she was trying to harvest her eggs and fertilize them after her double mastectomy (they told her it was very risky because of the cancer meds she was on, so it was a one shot deal with the hormones) and I think she only had one or two viable…

Awww :) If anyone deserves happiness it’s Tig. I recently saw her documentary on Netflix and was hoping she would be able to be a parent one day - it was heartbreaking to see her struggle thus far.

Molly would have wiped the floor with them.