mohdali4400
mohdali4400
mohdali4400

I've been in near-constant work-overload for about a year now.
#1 & #2 are key. Some days I am a juggernaut and knock things out left and right.... Others I will try to work 2-3 projects and feel like I made zero progress on anything.
The next day I make it a point to finish something, anything, just to get a "win"

You don't trim a beard. You let it grow. Free and wild. Until your wife trims it for you. Usually whilst you're sleeping. My beard was up to ~3.5" a few months ago and I decided that since I was starting a new job, I should probably tone it down and let everyone ease into the beardyness. I trimmed it down to

This. I had medical issues that zapped my libido and energy and made sex painful. I've walked in on my now-husband masturbating to porn, woken up to him masturbating in bed, you name it. Depending on my mood I'd say an encouraging/approving word and move on, or occasionally lend a hand or mouth. I was always happy

I'l turn down the marginal benefits of a hot/cold shower, thanks. I can't imagine this provides any benefit that would make it worth it. My mornings are uncomfortable enough.

Many families (or their particular members) have some sort of tradition of never being "happy" with your current state. When you are single: "Why don't you have a girlfriend? ... When you are in relationship: "When are you going to be married?" ... When you actually are married: "When are you going to have a kid?"

You say that like it's not an expectation for other couples... ;)