Oh man, I love the smarmy bullshit that's dripping from this comment.

I mean, sure, preference might enter into these numbers. But I have a hard time believing that, for every 19 men who want to be directors, only one woman has that aspiration. Not everyone gets the jobs they want and are qualified for.

I mean, I can just find you some big bunny pictures. I would hate to have you waste all night sorting through the Daily Mail's website. Look, here's one with a puppy!

Gender discrimination is a problem, absolutely. But I feel the focus on directors, specifically, is myopic. What are the numbers on female producers? Female executives? Female cinematographers? Female screenwriters? Yes, I know, not great in most areas.

I'll take any help I can get! Thanks for the recommendation, my two E cups and I thank you for it, and will look into it.

There are two real estate agents with my name, one of them from my state, and they both maintain very active online presences. Sometimes I wonder if they're trying to out-SEO each other. You can find stuff about me online if you add search terms about my work or where I went to school, but I'm impossible to google by…

I just figured everyone was hooking up with everyone. Gawker writers just seem like that kind of people.

For a few months, I was into OkCupid. Most of the guys I chatted with online only shared first names, which is useless for Googling, but as soon as someone texted me offline, caller ID would provide that info. GAME ON. I never realized this wasn't normal, either.

My list is mostly the same. I would like to add that *I* typically like to be the only one in the relationship with a weird internet obsession.

I am in "media" and Google until I can't Google anymore. I did meet up with a man who was UnGoogleable, but I resorted to cellphone pictures from my friend's yearbook - they went to the same high school. He wasn't insane, in any case, so the extra effort was more to challenge myself.

Please stop dancing at me.

We are opposites! I can flirt okay when I have an endgame but I cannot do that friendly platonic flirting thing people do, and when my friends do it to me I get uncomfortable. The only exception is the developmentally disabled gentlemen I work with. I flirt platonically and shamelessly with them all day. I am so prone…

My dog is named Cody and he's the coolest!

Living in an apartment is sad?

Your feelings are completely and totally normal! Please don't bear yourself up over them. I was also out of work, home with my kids and going to school when they were 2 and 4 and I hated it. Hated. It.

Well, my second daughter was just born, so I know of what it is I speak - and yeah, more than twice the stress.

I enjoy looking back on those years SO MUCH MORE than I enjoyed living them. I did enjoy them, don't get me wrong and I gave my kids a good and memorable childhood (I have the video and pictures to prove it). But parenting babies/toddlers/preschoolers wasn't my forte.

Good luck to you. I think the most important thing is that you try very hard to be a good mother. I try everyday. I am not perfect, but I try to give my son the best I have in me to give. I am constantly reminding myself that everything is a stage and that it will pass.

In my observation, it seems like the guys who complain most about their wives no longer having as much time for them after having kids are often the same ones who hardly do any parenting, and can't see how these two things are related.

Maybe your partner should help more with the one you have (I get the impression from your comment that you do all or most of the child care) and THEN decide. It's easy to say you want more kids when you only get the fun parts. But you should also definitely let your partner know how you feel (if you haven't already).