Request nitrous for the DEEP CLEANING. It’s like $40 and well worth it. I’m a bit of a wuss when it comes to mouth stuff—BUT just in case, make sure they have that shit available cause I needed it for DEEP CLEANING. And you’ll feel better knowing it’s there as an option. Depends on how DEEP but that can be rough.…

Make an appt at a non crazy DMV office. Like, be willing to drive an hour away for an appt in Malibu rather than LA or an appt in Santa Rosa as opposed to SF. Seriously, well worth the drive. —a lifelong Cali resident

Best advice, make a fucking appointment at the DMV (if they offer). Otherwise, bring a good book.

Agreed. Yet I want his family name ruined and his progeny to be tarnished with the Trump name for generations to come. Seriously, I want his great grandchildren to change their names due the mere idea of being associated with their given name. I want the Trump name to be associated with Hitler, Stalin and Pol Pot.…

Thank you! I feel better. Not actual letters of her name but symbolism (even better in my opinion). I think another commenter got me hung up on actual letters. Now it’s just weird that I know your tattoo so well. I’m glad it’s so nice cause I looked at it for a really long time. And then I looked at it again with…

I’ve stared at a strangers tattoo for an inordinate amount of time. I was never any good at those two way pics (young girl/witchy woman type things). Please tell me the letters? Just the first one? I see a Y at the neck/chest.... stop torturing meeeeee!

I’ve read allll the comments tonight (yeah, my life is exciting) and this thread is my (almost) favorite! The misunderstanding is fucking hilarious and the kindness shown by both of you is really cool too.

I like her.

Regarding tips received as a bartender—it depends on where you are and (mostly) the establishment. I’ve worked in places that tipped in both ways described and those were in the same town.

Good looking kitty. Hate to say it but I too think you should probably take him to the vet. Unless you’re friendly with your vet and they are willing to give suggestions by looking at pics? Doubtful, but maybe worth a shot?

The magazine Psychology Today has a section which recommends regional help finding therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, etc. I haven’t used it myself but I would try it if I was looking. I’ve only seen this in their magazine version but they likely have links/info on their website. Everyone deserves access to a…

I’ve been following you and your fam’s exploits on SNS for awhile now but I’m still not clear on some things. If you’re comfortable, how many kids and what are their ages? I love your posts and having a rough outline of the family tree would help me (and others, I’m sure.) keep up!

When I attempted to give you a star one was taken away. I’m gray and new to commenting (been reading for years) and I’m trying to get involved a bit more. I do not understand the star subtraction. Can anyone explain?

What’s the price range/limit? Also, what did you used to use? What type of scent are you looking for?

Heiress to the Bausch and Lomb fortune? Please tell me more about this because that would be new and fascinating info about Court. I don’t think that’s true though. I guess I could be wrong. I’m probably not though.

When I was eleven I had to pass a certain house in order to get to/from school. There was a guy in his late twenties/early thirties that would stand in his (mother’s!) front yard and yell out disgusting things to the 6th-8th grade girls walking by. After a especially scary incident when I was alone on my way home, I…

More info on dude you want to destroy, please. Someone you dated in same social circle? Co-worker? Tell me more! I’m pretty good at destruction—when called for, of course.

I just want to say, I enjoy your posts and you crack me up regularly. I like that you don’t seem daunted by engaging with others on a feminist website in a non mansplainy way. You often add an interesting perspective (single dad/squirrel as comfort food enthusiast/military experienced guy). Keep fighting the good…

Wow, you’re living my best life! I’m starting A.F.’s book this week after hearing him on Marc Maron’s WTF podcast. Fun listening you may enjoy while on your flight to D.C.

Both Taos and Doc Martens are great for laced styles. But you should really just go to a high quality shoe store that has lots of boots. Try on a ton and you’ll figure out what’s best for you. That’s what I did and since they were all such great quality (and comfortable!) it became just a decision about style/color.