I hate that 50 Cents abuse is described as “trolling”. He posted an innocent woman’s sex tape with her then bf just because she shares a kid with Rick Ross. Then he hid his cash when she sued all while taunting her online with lewd displays of cash. Meanwhile mainstream media continue to minimise his evil by having…

Even if Ron did know that Harvey was forcing himself on women like Affleck and Tarantino did, I’m not sure what he could have done. It’s not like he had a regular work relationship with him that he could at least end. It’s not like he had the industry clout to provide protection for a victim coming forward. And it…

The female characters in the first half of the Twin Peaks revival were every negative carricuture you could imagine. Either screeching nags or dumb as rocks or distracting in their exaggerated sexuality. I suspect he got a note from the powers that be to tone it down. Also noticed that there were a few more POC later…

Maybe. I’m just saying that in the 80s a black kid with only white friends living in a white small town may not be actively seeking out black music. Even now with the Internet black kids in white enclaves just dont seek out the culture until later when identity crisis hits.

Lol. I asked if you were black because I was surprised that a black person would be unaware of the discourse on Christina in the 00s and Mariah in the 90s. Your age explains it though. You are entitled to Christina as a nostalgia act if she was such a big deal to you. You are just not entitled to rewrite the…

Did you hear about the cat before or after his long history of physical and sexual assault against multiple girls and women? Because I would think the latter is the giveaway, commonalities and all. Cat lovers may not want to hear this but the vast majority of cat killers don’t go on to assault or murder women. I dare…

Petty crime? He drove into his cousins car while she was in it, put a gun to her head to try and get her out of the car. He admits as much but claims it’s alright since the gun wasn’t loaded and he was only trying to stop her from “spreading gossip about him”. The gossip? That he had exposed himself to her.

Thats a slippery slope. They would probably just end up with an offensive caricature of blackness. Anyway, it makes sense that a black kid in a small white town in the 80s is clueless of black culture. 

Until the reddit Trumpers get on their keyboards. Those trolls are petty and idle. Plus the restaurant owner is a woman and thats chum in the water for them. 

I’m much more concerned that the memory of this period will make her hang about long after she should be on self protection mode. That’s the tendency in BPD couplings. You wait for the person you fell for to come back forgetting that alot of what you fell for are actually just symptoms of his idealisation phase. Maybe…

Can I ask if you are black? And if so, how much attention you were paying to cultural talking points at the time? The discussions on Christina and company were happening not just in black magazines and stations but bleeding into white pop mainstream media. You can’t be black, of that era, have been curious about race…

There have always been two biological sexes. The biological outliers are medical abnormalities. As for gender, NOBODY is exactly binary. We all identify with a little something of the other side which is why society works so hard to beat us into line with all their gender rules.

Firstly, at no point did I suggest that your parents have BPD. I think “whirlwind” romances are extremely ill advised regardless of mental condition but there’s always an odd exception to every rule so I take you at your word that it worked out for them without undue sacrifice on either side.

I’m saying that as many of us women who have experienced childhood rape, we don’t get to leave trails of destruction that major and blame it on our assaults. Frankly, i dont think we would get away with it if we tried.

How did BPD become this big elephant in the room that nobody wants to acknowledge? “Whirlwind” romances are not just typical of people with borderline, it’s one of the big giveaways. And that commitment that your folks had to working it out after the whirlwind was over....that’s a downright dangerous idea for a person…

I fear my eye balls are in danger of doing a 360 eye roll in their socket. He literally blamed his psychopathic behaviour on patriarchy. He actually goes on and on about how sexual assault caused him to question his “masculine identity” because patriarchy. He was clearly attempting to present himself as a mere victim…

Yes, I believe it should be a sports wide directive. Rather than rely on check boxes in forms, we should start using testesterone as the first determinant. A person who identifies as male but meets the lower testestorone range should be able to compete in the “Womens” and vice versa.

Again this misses the point. If there was a special race set aside for people with shorter legs and Usain Bolt insisted on racing in it, THEN he would be analogous to Semenya.

You wrote... “All testerone must be exactly the same so we don’t handicap those with naturally lower than normal testosterone as well as handicapping those with higher?”

She was born intersexed. Her mother made a choice to raise her as a girl. I dont want to violate her privacy here again with the minutia of her biology so let’s just say she has both male and female characteristics. Its not unusual for intersexed people to reject the gender designation their parents selected for them…