Joe Alwyn was in Mary Queen of Scots.

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Shelter Cat Update!

I’m ringing in the new year in my traditional way: Sitting on my couch under a blanket, sipping wine, and reading a book or watching movies. I stopped doing New Year’s hoopla a decade ago, and it was a great decision. I don’t hate New Year’s, I am just generally apathetic about it. I nothing it. So I stay in.

Found a pair of 2020 glasses while out shopping with Duckling. Donned them and told Kiddo “Look, I have 2020 vision!”

Happy new year kids, 2019 has been wild fucking ride but it's ending better than I could have expected. Here's to light and life and love in 2020...whether it comes through luck, hard work or radical, costly generosity. 

Every turn-of-the-decade New Year’s Ever portends something life changing for me.

Never Have Kids, for sure. That was easy because it’s just one of those things that’s been set in stone forever with me—like hating all seafood. I’m not going to change my mind and luckily I’ve never had anybody try to.

Yeah it’s just a really upsetting situation and every reply would remind me of it so I changed my mind. I didn't really think it through. Thank you for being kind. I’m very thankful for my SNS folks <3

Oh my God. I'm so glad lm not the only one who's kid ruined their holiday.  I know that might be a terrible thing to feel good about, but l can't help it. I feel very alone in this, and now not so much. Thank you for your post. 

Blah I decided not to unload all the personal shit in this comment so I'll just say thanks to the commentariat for being there. Hope you all have a joyous new year. 

Dear God, me either. My younger (35 yr old) daughter has done everything in her power to ruin my holidays. You guys, I feel weary and despairing to the core of my soul.

This holiday season has basically been a microcosm of my complicated and sad relationship with my family, and it was pretty instructive to me. There’s some sentimental, irrational part of me that wants a normal, loving family, even though they’re a pack of narcissists and enablers. I get some ray of hope that there…

Shelter Cat Update!

Hi y’all

Hi Jezzies,

Amen. Nobody with a minimal understanding of architecture or design principles designs a house like this. You’ve got 5 acres of good land and a ton of money—take the time to have the house designed right, with a cohesive sense of architectural style and proportion. But people with more money than sense just want their …

i just watched it alone in my kitchen. It was hysterical! thank you John Mulaney & The Sack Lunch Bunch for lifting me up on Christmas Eve!

I am going to a hot springs place and I am going to soak in the tubs all the 30th and 31st (my heinous bday). I was there last year and the sulphur water really helped my crackled skin. Last year I learned there is a meteorite shower every year late Dec—early Jan. I never knew! I saw so many shooting stars!

I read the story and it hit me....it reminded me why as a Latino, I decided not to have children. I remember all the times I was attacked - physicially - multiple times as a child because I was a Latino ( I can still remember the kids yelling die spic die). I’ve had my arm broken, been repeatedly beaten....and what…