There seems to be some way of thinking that hornier people are pervs and less sexual people who have sex sometimes are basically rape victims.
No one is talking about the mental damage caused to the first group.
In marriage, people do things they don't always want to do but it's important to the other. Sports, shopping,…

Ok, first off, we are discussing monogamous married or committed couples. We are not talking about you wanting to punch people. Quit mixing apples and oranges.
It's just you don't hear about the feelings of the other partner who gets rejected day after day. I'm not talking joe gorga aholes, I'm talking good people who…

This is stupid. Do you seriously think that she hasn't plucked and filled in her brows?

There's a third kind too: not getting very into it sexually but considering it an act of love rather than a chore. There are a lot of things I do for my partner out of love that don't serve me or my needs; that doesn't make me resentful of those actions. When my partner wants sex, and I'm not aroused or interested, I…

Huh. The version of events I see the most frequently is that the more sexual person is shut down pretty callously, made to feel foolish or as though their desires are petty. You're right that no one is ever owed sex. But you do owe your partner respect and understanding—something that doesn't really go hand-in-hand…

I'm going to try this. I think the key overall is more communication :)

I've been on the other end of the equation and I can tell you that constantly being rejected for sex also takes an emotional toll. I was in a relationship with someone who rarely wanted to have sex as the relationship progressed and it really harmed my self esteem in ways that took years to repair. I developed an…

That's a big leap from what I said. Don't be so over reactive.

I wouldn't say the onus is on the less sexual. I would say it's the opposite. If the other partner would like it once a day and compromises at 2x a week, they are letting their wants let down 5x a week.

Yup. Everyone wants to say, "Well MY son will keep his penis clean!" "MY special snowflake won't harbor disease!" ...until you see how god-awful toddlers/small children are about hygiene. Teaching boys to wipe properly (or, at first, to wipe at all) is a reallll process. And judging from, ya know, COLLEGE, a lot of…

LET ME TELL YOU HOW TO FEEL ABOUT YOUR BODY.

Really? People aren't putting together that it's customary for Jewish people to circumcise their sons? They're just going to impose their own values onto a practice that's thousands of years old and rooted to deeply held beliefs? Oh, right, because AMURRIKA.

Oh, fuck you!

The conclusions of this analysis should give you pause. You are justifiably concerned about problems going on in a particular hospital you know about. But this study should lead you to wonder about the problems of home delivery that you don't know about. On average, it appears that hospital delivery is safer - even…

Interesting concept. I have 2 thoughts on the matter.

"New research from Pew shows that not only do three out of every four Amurricans born between 1973 and 1995 have ink . . ."

95% of tattoos I've seen either in real life or in pictures on the internet beg to differ.

Moral of the story: Get a tattoo or don't. Just don't think it makes your special or edgy. It just makes you a person with a tattoo.

This is wrong. 75% of Americans between the ages of 18 and 40 do not have tattoos. Especially since if only 59% of women of this age range have tattoos, that would mean that 91% of men in this age range have tattoos. I realize the article you're linking to includes this statistic, but it is simply inaccurate. A quick…

Yes (but Marie Bonaparte was the niece of Napoleon, and wife to a Danish prince):