...on white people, maybe. and not all of us.

LOL that isn’t just a false analogy, that’s the most pathetic excuse for an analogy I think i’ve ever read. crying. thanks for the laugh!

UM NO. Her video was a RESPONSE to the cafe’s entirely unnecessary post flaming her for NO REASON. A polite “no thanks” from the goddamned café could have avoided ALL of this.

oh right. since you’re not comfortable with it, no one else should be either. smdh.

false analogy

uh, that’s the whole point. I mean FFS people do this shit all the time in the marketing world. Not at all unprofessional.

No, not at all. She WAS polite, courteous, and professional. This Paul guy is a flaming asshole for starting this entirely unnece flame war.

i have seen people write out f—-ot before.

yes...$5 is what you’d pay for any bag of specialty chocolates at the drug store anyway...

LOVE matcha kitkats! and bless my local asian food stores for carrying them.

Did we forget that Cardi B has made some of her own questionable anti-queer comments? she ain’t gonna do nothing.

HELL YES. My chaotic cooking style requires one. honestly i should be wearing an art smock, but an apron is ok.

Why does she get to dictate what is and is not acceptable in this interaction?

lol she didn’t write it. she was sought out by babe. did you even read the jez post? good lord.

Do people just do shit without asking now?

We also need to reassure women that their fear of being thought of as “difficult” “awkward” or god forbid, “frigid,” should be completely eradicated, effective immediately.

In my experience, men are terrible at picking up on non-verbal cues and reading body language

It’s time for men to have a conversation about how they need to stop making their sexual partners uncomfortable by treating them as disposable bodies, busting degrading porn moves with no prior discussion of mutual pleasure, and treating “slow down/stop” cues as speed bumps en route to ejaculation rather than valuable…

yep. and plenty male friends of mine get that. i don’t know why people are continuing to invalidate her experience with these permutations on “it wasn’t that bad”

yeah that’s nice and all that it’s “a turn on for some men” but i sure as hell think it’s tacky and gross and porny and fuuu ALWAYS ASK BEFORE INCLUDING SOMEONE IN YOUR FETISH. fuckin no.