Ouch, so sorry!

My husband and I were together for 9 years before we got married, so I didn’t bother giving The Big Ex a heads up. However, when I was a mere child of 21 aforementioned Big Ex and I inadvertently got pregnant, and had an abortion. He was a gem, went to the clinic with me, held my hand, cried, etc. When I decided to…

I have a crazy cousin who was engaged for almost two years, and took it really REALLY personally when two of us other cousins got married several months before her wedding. One cousin had an original date a few weeks after hers and bumped it up to get in on her husband’s sweet sweet health insurance (open enrollment,…

Fairuza Balk in The Craft is the moment I realized I was bi. But I’m a Cheerleader was when I was okay being open with it.

Done!

My biggest fear right there. I’m in a 9 year relationship, we have a 3 year old child. When we met we were on equal financial footing, but in the intervening years he has risen up the payscale while I stayed stagnant, then left the workforce to tend to our child. Now I’m back in school, and he is the sole breadwinner…

You seem to have right idea about it, but everyone else I know *cough cough my tacky older sister amongst others* views it as an additional gift. Which means, depending how close you are to the bride, you could end up getting them an engagement gift, a shower gift, throwing in on the bachelorette shindig, a wedding…

Ugh, the only time I used Lyft the driver couldn't find the pick-up spot. With the map. Less than a mile from where he told us he lived.

So excited! Saw Dillinger and Mastadon together at the Wiltern when I was seven months pregnant!