Wife and I were camping. On the first night things start getting hot and heavy in the tent. I was having serious difficulties getting the condom on in the dark so she turns on a 1500 lumen flashlight aimed square at my peen. Got the condom on no problem but then laughter erupts from the neighboring campsites. We…

Yeah, I think consent education's big potential is really in educating non-rapists that their friend isn't just a douche, he's a rapist, and they should do something about that, or that they should stop believing that this was all just some big miscommunication. It's not about targeting potential perpetrators, it's…

All this and nobody says anything about observers? As Thomas at Yes Means Yes says, look for that guy who pushes boundaries, pushes booze on a victim who's already had a lot, ———-and then tries to get her alone. Those three things are pretty glaring in combination.

Beware the Idiots of March

Also, this lovely gem from the main article:

Sure they can—that's the magic of the double bind! See also: emasculator/golddigger, prude/slut, airhead/feminazi, and so on. That's the clever thing about sexism—no matter what a woman does, it's possible to criticize her for it.

Ahem.

Negger: Hey, can I ask you a question?

"Crazy" would probably be more like 狂ってる or 頭が変. バカis basically "stupid."

I'll lose all faith in humanity if no reporters start an interview with, "I mustache you a few questions..."

I was just thinking about this tonight while reading some of the Twitter reaction to an instrumental version of the National Anthem before NBA All-Star game. It's ridiculous how seriously Americans take symbols and rituals in place of actual policy that would help the country.

I am a native Spanish speaker. Disfigured does not sound bad to me. I would have probably used it in the same way. I don't even know the difference between disfigured and distorted (I'm going to google it right now) they both sound like they convey the same to me. Just to give you some background I am also Mexican and…

This has nothing to do with the topic of the article, but I'll be damned if that first sentence doesn't reference Tamora Pierce's Alanna series. LINDY WEST BE MY BEST FRIEND I WANT VIOLET EYES TOO.

the girl version is pretty good, just sugar, spice and everything nice.

I like to counter that metaphor with this gem:

I love seeing midwives. I was seeing one before I moved, then had an emergency after moving that required me to see whoever was first available a couple of years ago. It was the male gyn who runs the local chapter of some anti-choice group (just found that out last week from my midwife), and prescribed a book for…

Girls are still pretty indoctrinated with the idea that purity is important and that it's all the female's job to make sure sex doesn't happen. And sadly, in trying to boost girls' self esteem and tell them that they don't HAVE to have sex until they're ready, people really tend to frame the message as "You don't need…

IF the restaurant refuses to post the dress code, and IF they make you pay upfront, and IF they make you wait for hours despite having a reservation...maybe your situation would be analogous.