So ignorant people are attributing Jaya-Jay as a product of an unstable environment created by ex Mrs. Kelly. Instead of asserting the shittiness of that premise a commenter basically attributes it instead to Mr. Kelly's (transgressions, no pun intended), to which you chime in that his absence was the primary…

Bonus points for drinking the koolaid and implying this is a motive behind his trans status..having read some of your posts Kat, I'm surprised. Is stability of the home life a contributing factor to a childs gender identity? Are you wanting to prove a point for a large conservative faction of this country? Boo for…

Patriarchal context...wherein a man that has an STD and doesn't divulge said information to past partners is a dick and a woman whose diagnosis is exposed is a victim..Look, I understand the legal implications of going into medical records and for that, I do believe some reprimand for the employee is in order. And…

Im actually not a fan of SAHM or SAHD, I personally believe either situation leads to a life of unhealthy dependence and eventual resentment on behalf of either party. I do believe children can garner benefits from it, but only at the expense of a parents personal pride, and in some cases, sanity.

so your pleas are answered sooner, still begging. The next time you're in a 458 I want you to have the transmission in third while rev matching in neutral. If your response is anywhere along the lines of, "but the trans and ecu take care of that" you are further proving its automatic status.

It is jarring. I remember a particularly poignant moment that simultaneously scared the crap out of me and opened my eyes. It was the before/after pics of Emmitt Till. It was jarring, it was disturbing, and borderline traumatic. But it was necessary. Up until then, thanks in part to my milquetoast suburban…

Because of our modern PC bubble we live in..Im a black guy born in 1984, and I hadn't seen blackface until almost the 8th grade. BTW I don't see the jarring as a bad thing, in fact I think our kids would benefit from a jarring look at our ugly history, I think the fear is backlash against the status quo.

ಠ_ಠ...how is a rape joke jarring to a girl that hasn't been raped?

I didn't miss any point, the charts point to a pattern of domination of "desirable" traits by East Asians and Europeans from which I'm guessing you are using as evidence towards a justification of differing treatment by race. While your numbers may be sound they fail to reflect the influence of cultural domination…

Wow, it's almost like we live in a world where every single world economy is controlled by east asians and europeans...that can't have anything to do with how these statistics play out.

I agree in a public place, walking away from stranger is simple and effective. Strangers tend not to incite violence publicly no matter how drunk they are. Spouses and significant others are different, there's an implied familiarity. As a black guy, I've often observed this behavior amongst black couples, wherein the…

Well you implied that there are rare situations where a man is justified in striking a woman, I'm wondering if you'd clarify, because your position seems to be that of no exceptions, even with a drunken aggressor.

Your 1st mistake is assuming verbal abuse is what triggered this incident. Perhaps your family's unfortunate situation has blinded you to the fact that many women take advantage of drunkeness to act out their violent urges upon their significant others.. i think you have this idea she simply goaded him into striking…

I call BS on this statement. Since when is using my hands to defend myself from an aggressor a cop out? Are we playing the "women are weaker" card? Fair enough, then own your weakness and don't attack someone who can put you on your ass. I understand the history of violent NFL players, but given the fact that she…

Sure, questionable mechanicals and dated styling are two of the Probe's failings..but I simply sum it up as RX-7 styling with wrong wheel drive. IIRC the Probe was originally intended to be the replacement for the Mustang? I imagine if Ford carried over RWD for the cars instead of relying on a FWD Mazda chassis, we'd…

Drugging one's wife to get laid? I never say this to anyone, but dude, look into cheating, you obviously don't have too much morality, and no one can give you any kind of sentence for extramarital banging...just leave the happy drops at home.

Middle to lower class SE Michigan as long as it's not during sleepy time. Cops will give you a thumbs up as long as you are obeying traffic laws.

So why is this news? I've said it repeatedly, few women will have a problem attracting potential suitors when going online. This discussion plays out in my household at least once per month;

I get your point, I think I'm just fortunate enough to have seen female bosses exert the same qualities in different ways, yielding different results. Assertiveness is not necessarily percieved as negative trait when it has a female practitioner but in the realm of patriarchal context it may be acted out in such…

So I'm a child of a single female parent household, and have no qualms about female leadership. What is the threshold for behaviors and mannerisms that will allow us to call out a female boss for being shitty? It just seems like yet another thing a whole new group of ladies are going to get a pass for due to…