To the extent of insuring the status quo has no implication as to what decisions are made. Women are indoctrinated from birth to be domestic caretakers and sexual objects...black and brown minorities are indoctrinated to be descended from savages, and potential criminals; all of these indoctrinations, though…

Wow..if you can't understand how an oppressive system drives individuals to make the wrong choices, then you are really far gone.

Opportunity matters because with equal opportunity comes job equality..If black people had all the perks and societal value of their caucasian counterparts, it stands to reason they would inhabit a percentage of the workforce that matches their population percentage, in other words 13% Black population in US should…

But as someone just explained, opportunity is also calculated into this..I get that because I am a POC. Its similar to how many like to quote black on black crime as a public safety issue, while ignoring the factors that funnel black youth into a life of poverty and crime.

...but would you resent it any less, if he did keep himself groomed?

But isn't that effort put into attraction setting us up for failure? If the goal is to have a relationship with a whole person as opposed to just a fuckable body, why do we entertain prospects attracted by said body? Wouldn't the person who deserves you want you initially, hairy body and all? Or is the bait and…

*preference not complaints...

No, society obviously still favors men, but there is an undeniable backlash against male complaints, I imagine in part, because of how male preference has shaped the world.

Makes a bit more sense when explained this way, falls more under the sphere of equal opportunity. The privilege of men and oppression of minority can sometimes conflict with each other..just trying to get a bit of clarification.

"I know I don't have the right to dictate the way you look, and I think you're hot, but I feel even more attracted to you when you X Y or Z.What are your thoughts on that? What are your preferences?"

This sounds MRAish, but I am genuinely curious, when wage gap is calculated, does it simply count up annual salary, or does it take into account hours worked, production numbers, and overtime?

So say he stops grooming himself as you prefer, what then would be your reaction/course of action?

"You will never have to pluck or shave off your boobs to be considered manly, so you won't have to deal with painful ingrown boobs or feel that your sexual partner finds you repulsive because you have 5 o'clock boob shadow."

Lol, no it was an attempt to find an equivalent grooming inconvenience for men as preferred by women..

So then I should feel shame when i'm glad my gf shaved? Or is it I shouldn't notice? Or should I just find some way to find body hair attractive?

I'm with you, I'd never say anything about my gf's body hair growth, but I am so happy when she decides to shave/Veet. Perhaps if I resolve to never grow boobs, then I'd feel better about my preferences for female body hair.