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Pam is not noted for her excellent taste in men but this is...really weird. Really, really weird. There’s so many gross, criminal men you could hook up with stateside, why go to all the trouble??

Ha I KNEW there was at least another of us on here 💕

You’re in a cult, call your dad.

On the one hand, it’s candy. I understand the temptation to dismiss this. But the optics of using white as a stand in for neutrality are...not great. I think what people are really irritated about is that it shows a CLEAR lack of diversity at the top - if they’d had even a few more POC or LGBTQ (or both!) people

Nothing to do with anything, but it looks like that kid took after his mom in the looks department and I feel really relived for him. Grow up, get lots of therapy, and move away from your crazy family, Barron, and your life will be 1000 times better. Good luck kid.

I wear a 34N. There are NO summer clothes that cover my giant bra straps and all of my cleavage, which essentially goes all the way up to my neck. I had friends in high school who were A cups and got away with NO bra under a camisole and nobody said anything, but I wear a full-sleeved scoop neck and suddenly the world

I have a chronic illness that is nowhere near as debilitating as this poor child. No. Let him go. You do not have the right to make another human being live in excruciating pain because you can’t let go. I understand their position, I really do - I have a child and would be absolutely devastated if we had to heal

I honestly really worry about this. I want to hope I would intervene, but I have a 4 month old who is almost always strapped to my chest when we’re out on public transportation. I want to say that this makes no difference and won’t go through my mind if I see something, but...it will. And more than likely I will opt

Of course! I’m always sad when perms get such a bad rap!

For SURE. The last one I got was a low-smell one, it was sort of flowery/chemically smelling. Not something I’d be putting on every morning but also not terrible for the time you can’t wash it. Most people just assume my hair is curly now because I know how to take care of it and style it, but there were quite a few

Oh, also, use the largest rods you can get away with. They always tell you that tight curls will “relax”, and they will...after a couple of months. You don’t wanna live with it for a couple months. Trust.

I have one and I really like it. It’s all about getting the RIGHT kind of perm, and for GO TO A PROFESSIONAL. Do not do at home. Also watch YouTube videos about styling a perm - part of the bad wrap perms get is that straight haired girls don’t have any idea how to care for/style curly hair.

I’m growing out an undercut and it is...pretty frustrating. This makes me want to buzz it and start over. Stay tuned for 6 hours from now when the baby is napping and I’ve figured out the hard way that I have a lumpy head...

I’ve referred to her as “my one true love Gillian Anderson” since th x-files, and as we were watching last week my husband was like “Yeah. I mean I finally get it”. She’s amazing 😍

This. I feel like it’s sort of socially unacceptable these days to love being a mom. Mine is 4 months, so I’ll admit that he can’t talk back or slam doors yet, but he’s had horrible, life threatening reflux (he throws up and then aspirates and it is the most terrifying thing that has ever happened to me), so it’s been

My husband’s bio mom is one such person. She loves her children, but was not/is not a terribly attentive, maternal mom. She made a lot of choices better suited to a person without children, and I truly believe she would have been MUCH happier if she’d made that choice. Luckily, husband has an awesome dad who LOVED

Thanks for this. This is my third Mother’s Day since telling my toxic mom that I (and my siblings) would no longer be tolerating her bullshit, and it’s my first as a mother myself. It’s a hard, very bittersweet day for me and it helps to remember that I’m not alone. Love to you all today 💕.

Text I just sent to my husband along with this article:

I got a chronic, debilitating illness at 13. Exactly what choices did I make to deserve it, you fucker? I got fucked over by genetics and somehow it’s my fault? I hope this asshole gets something not fatal, but chronic, something that will render him unable to work and that cost him millions over his lifetime to

Marry me, John Dickerson 😍