I'm really surprised at the understated hotness of Murtagh because in the books he doesn't sound particularly attractive and he sounds hella old. I have been DIGGING Murtagh on Starz!

The expression says, "I'm so baked . . . wait, is that a camera?"

Which is why I often say, by way of apology, "It was not my intention to cause you harm. I realize that really hurt you, and for that I am truly sorry." And I only get into the "what I meant was" if the person wants to hear it. Defensive apologies don't mean shit.

Or was she a white chef trying to explain to you how she'd carefully cultivated some estoteric cooking technique because she's a huge fan of the African diaspora (because that would make me side eye the hell out of her)?

I don't understand how "DO NOT BE THE GIRL WHO DIDN'T GO TO PARIS" didn't make Lauren Conrad's list.

I just loved that she said, (on The City? or Kell on Earth?) "If you have to cry, go outside." That and the fierce way she loves her daughter. She's all kinds of awesome in my book.

She's a big deal in fashion. And the thing I've always admired about her is that she doesn't shy away from telling people that.

. . . and the crowd says, "DORIAN . . . COREY!"

He has two teasers, one I swing around and another he can do by himself. Loves the laser above all, although he plays with all of them. He's also about 14 months old and just rambunctious as hell. He's going to settle down soon, and I assume cut back on the nipping. I hope cut back on the nipping. Also, he's the…

This is what my cat does when he wants me to play with him. He gets a "NO!" on the biting, but knows I"ll pick up the laser pointer. If I kept waving my hand around, he would keep nipping me. He's a nipper . . . he knows it pushes me to do the thing he wants. So is he "bad"? No. Is he spoiled as hell? Um, yeah.…

I'm thankful he spoke up. I hope that he gets to know peace, and I'm glad he has a wife and children who love him as their whole family member.

EXACTLY! How and when did dap die? I thought I was the only one who remembered it.

I went to school in the Bay Area in the early 90's and Counting Crows was a part of the music scene. The house I lived in had a band that played a lot of the same venues they played, and had a lot of live music shows actually at the house, and also, you could just go out in then and hear like, three bands for five…

Exactly! And on "Lost Ones" Jay talks about a period when they were broken up. Neither of them confirmed their relationship for the longest time, so all kinds of craziness has probably gone on.

I know. I read this last night and started yelling, "But Sid, what about the good bye drugs?!" at my computer, because that's how long I've had a crush on him! He's now off the list . . .

I think it's important to remember that Shonda Rhimes has been able to do it, despite being the first— her shows manage to be dramatically interesting (and absurd, per nightime soap standards) while also showing diversity. I don't think any show needs to be all things to all people— that's why we have comedies,…

I like Mindy, and I too want to like her more. Early on in the show I thought she said some really great, funny things that revealed her insider/outsider point of view as a POC. For example, I loved the ep where they went to the club and she kept talking about how Black men like her, and why. It was funny and…

She's pretty tall . . . I actually saw her in person at Sidwell. She's tall and she stands up straight. I'm 5'7 and she was definitely taller than I am. I think Sasha is the hoop star.

Thank you for saying that so I didn't have to. See you at the 9:30!

There are legions of natives, but it's true that the non natives totally screw up driving for us. The circles are all being re-jiggered to accommodate the people who don't understand that people on the circle have the right of way, and our incredibly simple alpha numeric grid apparently confounds the average…