I’m torn because while I agree with this...in fact I was pretty pissed that I’ve had friends completely erase my bisexuality and make it seem like any time I expressed my interest in women that I was doing it for attention....and now they all seem to be jumping on the “omg look at me questioning my sexuality lolol”…

Somewhere around 2011/2012 it got to where if you ever said anything critical of porn, you were deemed “sex-negative” and outdated. I gave up arguing.

I think God had a plan for that.

I’m actually so happy she gave a specific number for how much she weights. I know the number isn’t supposed to matter, and two people who weigh the same thing can look very different, but I feel like I’m constantly hearing about women who weigh 135 and want to lose 5 or 10 more lbs and it makes me sick. I just saw Amy…

Hey kid, don’t worry, Hollywood does not dictate real life fuckability. You can get it at any age, and with any age. There are many more someones for everyone than you can imagine now. Life is full of surprises so don’t let this bullshit get you down.

Now if there is ever a reason to out someone, this is a good reason. Who is the producer who said this? Get on it, hackers.

is he supposed to get a pass just because hes gay?

Yeah, as much as I love the idea of a comedy about a gay teen in a Catholic family, Dan Savage has too many strikes for me.

I’m not a big fan of a lot of Dan Savage’s opinions—besides his views on trans and bisexual people, he’s made a number of incredibly sexist comments over the years, and then spent an insane amount of time throwing tantrums about all the mean, horrible women who called him out on them—but that really doesn’t make the…

This is some next level aggressive heterosexuality.

You might want to remind Howard about that idea.

Calling another interviewer a “syphilitic parasite” or a “clown” while on the Howard Stern show is some pretty dark irony, though probably not intended.

I’m a gay dude, but...I kind of feel like “X-Now with Girls!” is patronizing and lazy. Like, that women need their own version of something but also that women aren’t deserving of or capable of producing their own original content but have to gender-flip the male version (which is of course the default version).

Because straight women are supposed to pretend that they’d prefer to see boobs so their male partners will think they’re “cool”.

I don't know. The reaction here is the right one - she looks healthy, she looks happy, it's nice to see a realistic post-partum woman, good for her for taking time to be a mom instead of splitting for the gym. This isn't like republishing the Rhianna police photos. There's nothing inherently problematic with the…

First, let me say that I just recently found this blog. I'm loving the mix of subjects - deep, shallow and everything in between. And the comments from the community - very nice. Now my two cents...

I can only speak for myself as a Black(ish) woman, but I fell into that common trap. You know the saying.