That may be nice but to me country clubs are bastions of old money/snobbery and white people only, even if they let in POCs so I can't get behind them. But if it works for you then that's what matters, right?

I am thinking of others but you are not. Apparently you think that your whole evening would have been ruined if you had to attend a prom with another person dressed the way that they felt was right for them. Apparently you are unable to dance, drink and eat, laugh and have fun with your friends unless everyone is…

By the way, you still didn't answer the question. The question was and still is in what way would your enjoyment of the evening been ruined by this person wearing what she is wearing? All you've done is claim that if there is a dress code people have to wear that. That is not my question. Again - how would what…

And if your so repressed that you can't possibly see that forcing others to conform is a bad thing then it's best that you continue to live with that stick up your ass. Next thing you will be telling me is that traditional marriage is the only kind, that women should be barefoot and pregnant and that people of color…

What would you want to go to a country club for? Seriously - what do they have to offer that you can't get at a nice restaurant? I don't believe in segregating the sexes and I'm an atheist so chapel is right out for me. But if you want to spend your life doing only what others want you to do, go ahead but come…

Why from Okinawa? What's wrong with good old 'murican shredded newspapers?

You still didn't answer the question but that's probably because you don't have a good answer, other than "I demand everyone behave a certain way or I am unhappy".

I understand your point of view but I'm telling you that oppressing other people's ability to express themselves is not a good thing. Also constantly conforming to other people's expectations is not good for you either. At the ripe old age of 53, I can assure that once you stop worrying about stuff like that, the…

Oh yeah, and something is still rude even if the other person doesn't know you are doing it.

Sorry I'm not living on your schedule. I just saw this today. As to conforming, to me that means "Let's live in the 1950s when everyone knew their place" and for women, gays and people of color that meant having no power and no agency and no life.

What the hell are you talking about? I do not think that. I was arguing with the guy who claimed everyone's read Harry Potter. I have not read those books.

Actually doing it behind someone's back is still rude and #not nice. And that person you consider odd is still a person.

I am not trolling. I am disagreeing with you. You implied that formal clothing is more affordable for everyone and that is not true. Nor is it necessarily easy to get everywhere. And I notice you didn't answer my question. So I'll ask again. What the hell difference does it make to you how anyone else dresses?

#Jezhatesnicegirls

It isn't a baseball cap when it is part of a coordinated outfit.

And it goes without saying that everyone in the world must do things exactly as you did them or they should be taken out and shot, right? Zombie Jesus Christ on a cracker, that stick up your ass must really hurt.

She's is a female and can wear the damn hat indoors. It is men who have to take the hat off.

"...but don't expect mainstream society to NOT roll their eyes behind your back."

"...and nice, formal clothing is even more affordable than ever."

Excuse me but are you 112 years old? I'm 53 and I'm not creaky enough to think a prom has to be formal or that this has anything to do with etiquette. Why do you care so much how other people are dressed? Would it "like totally ruin your whole life" if someone showed up at your prom dressed like that?