however it’s not cool to use people of the opposite sex as human shields to protect you from judgement - or stalk them to the point they file restraining orders

I wish people who want to be ‘helpful’ because they are ‘concerned’ would do some research into how the following topics

you are awesome

please inform him that infants are not supposed to have rock hard thighs and chiseled features. 

you know, as I get older,  I lost patience with people who feel they can criticize my body.  And they can dish it out but they SURE can’t take it.  If they can’t learn empathy, they do learn to stop talking about my body

my bestie and I had a competition to see who could hit the big M first (in fun because it’s not something you can control) My Doctor thought we were fab.  She hears waaaay too many stories from women dreading that time

where in the article did she say she was feeding her kid Peeps for breakfast? Parents obviously control what goes on the table at meals

OK Boomer

he will the second you mention size ;-)

but the most fun thing would be to start being openly dissatisfied with his sexual performance and ya know, torture him slowly

plus if he refuses to draw up HIS will, and she has one. They both die, but the kid is cared for - is that correct?

so we’re blaming the mother now?

no you can’t assume that.  Abusers are often on best behavior til after the wedding

because his obsessive cruelty won’t stop with one individual.  And they have a young daughter, that’s why.  It’s inaccurate to assume that other than being cruel to one person, he’s really lovely

you aren’t familiar with the advice column format are you?

It enrages the ‘healthy’ to see fat people who are happy and enjoying their best life.  They take it as an assault on all their own efforts to be thin and fit  “I mean, if that fat woman is smiling and eating french fries with her husband, what is all this exercise even FOR?”

I’m so sorry you went thru that

the child in question is young and needs protection. The husband needs to sleep with the fishes

the mental health issue is her husbands.  Mental health issues don’t give him a pass to abuse his wife and daughter

As a woman and a mother, you need to strongly consider the values and messages your husband is openly and adamantly giving both you and your daughter - that women are only value for their looks, and as long as they maintain their looks. Where will he be if you become ‘imperfect’ or heaven forbid age? Would he stand by…