IMO, more power to them.

Naw I’d rather they got rid of the tipping thing altogether, and just do it the way places like Australia, South Korea, and many other parts of the world do it with no tipping.

Not every server or anyone who works in service industry deserves a tip 100% of the time. This shaming people who didn’t tip is kinda assuming that the server was entitled to be tipped. I tip 20-25% most of the time but if the service was shit, I won’t.

That saying about the way people treat underlings being true of the way they treat loved ones has been true, in my experience. Shitty tippers and dudes who were demanding to the waitstaff always ended up being selfish boyfriends and sexual partners. In stupidest my youth, I dated someone who would either complain…

I’ve talked to my husband about this (he’s a restaurant manager) and he’s had conversations with repeat customers who didn’t tip. He asked them “are you unhappy with your service?” In some cases they started tipping, other times they never came back.

I had a cashier at a coffee shop shame me for not tipping on an iced coffee. As in - she said (as she walked by me outside) that she took my photo because I didn’t tip.

My experience in the service industry is why I tip with cash.

Not to mention it depends on what was taking place. I go to a take out place all the time and I never tip on the card, mainly because I’m not using table service. I’ll throw a couple dollars in the tip jar instead because all they did was bag/hand me the food and take my money, I did not sit down for service or get…

Opinion: everyone should have to survive off of service industry jobs and wages for a year. It would make society a nicer place.

It’s almost like sexism is a societal problem!

The racist comments on this story are weird. Like...abuse of women and children is something that men of all races and religions seem pretty enthusiastic about. So claiming his Muslim name or the fact that Jezebel didn’t show his picture (when of course, every link they provide takes you right to his face) is some…

“ooh, a psycho brown person. a chance for me to fly my racist scumbag flag!”

Come on now. Let’s not blame the mother for a grown man being a monster.

he could have been raised right and turned into a monster, it happens all the time. Parents have no control over some psycho who grew and held his kids hostage. He made that choice

I’m going to be generous and say that sometimes you raise your kids to the best of your ability and they still end up assholes.

Of course she knew what she was doing. The man stole from her. Trans women are disrespected and not believed by people. So yeah, she was smart to record his ass because look at what he’s saying now.

Whether or not its rare remains to be seen but it does happen and its wrong.

If the trans worker is in fact a sex worker, then the outing is A problem - and an inconsequential one at that - not THE problem. Valentino wouldn’t have been “outed” if he’d paid this woman, so it’s his own fault. Like the author said, she was outing him as a thief. Celebrities who use their privilege to take…

So dude skips out on paying for what was agreed upon. He uses her, violates her by not paying. And you want to focus on her filming him in the act of theft on her person and deem that to be the act that we should call out? It wasn’t spite. He stole from her. Some would go further with naming what he did. Duh! If one…