The body comments come with being girl or woman in public. If you had a different body, you’d get different comments.

And get free drinks, and to cut in line, etc. etc.

Flat-chested women have wardrobe problems too. It’s the people in the middle who have it best, clothing-wise.

Also being called a man or not a real woman.

Getting unsolicited comments on your appearance is an unfortunate part of being a girl/woman. If you change your appearance, the comments don’t stop, they just change.

We are all human, but there are nuances. Differences are not bad. A person’s appearance tells a part of their story, but it’s not the whole story.

It depends. How comfortable are you in environments in which you are a minority?

If she had a big butt, her career would be much more limited if it existed at all.

Colorblindness is NOT the goal. Acknowledging and accepting similarities and differences is the goal.

He was in this song! He talked about preferring women built like Florence Joyner (Olympic track athlete) rather than Cosmo models. He noted that mainstream America calls black women with round butts fat as an insult, but he disagrees, as he likes women with an itty-bitty waist and a round thing in his face.

She has a “Hollywood” face. An “L.A.” face would be Latinx, most likely of Mexican ancestry.

It’s ok to ask women out. It helps to do so without a sense of entitlement and to accept rejection gracefully and keep it moving.

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That doesn’t apply to everyone. College was when my depression got worse.

In short, the idea is that women and girls are objects, not people.

Yes, and your use of “female” was apt.

When I was visiting L.A. there was some event that was $$ and he attended. It was hard to stick to my budget that day.

Can anyone tell if the diner is Johnnie’s/the empty diner @ Wilshire & Fairfax? I liked that the video showed L.A. rather than Hollywood, but the absence of Asian and Latinx people is glaringly obvious.

Yeah, the calluses and blood blisters are no joke!

It’s not as heavy as it looks, but it sure is unwieldy and more difficult to manage when the wind is blowing in the f-holes.