Exactly, it was abrupt, but it never felt dickish, to me, it felt like he was trying to stop the nonsense and let Moonlight know it wasn’t a joke or a bit. Especially when he followed up with “I’m proud to give this to my friends from Moonlight.” I think he just felt the urgency and went with it.

I didn’t read too much into that slip, he was trying to think fast. He did say “can’t we just give out a bunch of them?” as well.

I think it might be the bend of the camera lens, or the monitor the image was on? the top seems a little warped on the balcony and such too.

I saw an interview with him after the show and he said at the very beginning he thought it was a bit, because the Stage Manager who walked out looks A LOT like Matt Damon, and he thought “this is a really inappropriate time for a bit... “ and then he realized it was for real. So that’s probably what we’re seeing. It…

That was my thought, that face when you know you shouldn’t laugh, but everything is so crazy you can’t help it.

I agree about Henderson, it would have been lovely for them to include her, but she does fit better at the Emmys. Hopefully they get her in on that one.

That is a sharp suit. I really like tweed.

I really like that pompadour, your boyfriend does good work. I wish more guys would wear that. I think a lot of folks think you need to go full Elvis/T-Birds or go home, which is so sad.

I totally rub my roommates head after he gets a haircut. So fuzzy!

It’s a good, basic haircut that goes in and out of style on a regular basis mainly because it’s easy to care for and looks good on a good chunk of the population. I have no problem with it in general.

Exactly, there is no “over the line,” but there is a point where the tightrope is so thread thin it may not be the best road to follow unless you KNOW you’ve written the funniest joke ever told by a human. And you KNOW the punchline hurts the offender, not the offended, if that makes sense.

You are very right, forgiving is very different than forgetting.

I agree. If for no other reason, after ten years wouldn’t you just be tired of being so angry and hurt all the time? I mean, I know some people do get weird enjoyment out of it, but I think if most folks stopped to reflect on it, it really isn’t fun being so het up for that long.

Agreed. If I find out on my own? Don’t you dare lie to me. If I would never know, and it really, truly was a one-time thing? Ask yourself, are you telling me because I actually do need to know for a good reason (STD, pregnancy, blackmail attempt, etc.) or are you trying to unburden yourself by doing the “right” thing…

I disagree. I’ve regained trust in a relationship. It was really hard, and it took a while and I had to know deep in my bones the person was worth it, and they had to really show they meant it, but it happened.

I’ve gotten really good at just saying “OK, I’m right in the middle of a thought/thing/project here and I don’t want to lose it. If it’s important I can come to you in ten minutes?” That way if it actually is important they’ll let you know, and you can let them know when you’re at a natural pausing point, if it isn’t…

At my office sometimes you HAVE to do it. Certain people blow through topics just to get the meeting over with as quickly as possible and/or with as little resistance as possible and if you don’t interrupt you won’t get the question answered or concern addressed.

This frustrates me so much. I tend to interrupt to for the same reasons so I try very hard not to, then the conversation/meeting speeds past the topic without a pause so I’m stuck doing the “OK, I need to go back...” and everyone gets all pissy and try to minimize the question like it’s all been said even if it…

Do you mind if I point a few folks to this comment? It is so well worded and a lot of folks really seem to need to hear these things from the horse’s mouth, so to speak, before they get it.

When I was growing up we called Anaheim Klan-aheim for a reason. Granted we were also snotty Nor Cal kids, but I mean, it didn’t come from nowhere.